i love my bf dearly but their is a problem that were both afraid of. my bf is 4 1/2 erect and hes still a virgin and he wants his 1st time with me to be perfect. hes so sweet and hes the kind of guy every girl should have. i told him i have been with 3 guys that way before but my 3 prev partners were all 8 inches+ and im a lil bit afraid myself he wont be able to please me. other than sexualy hes incredible and i dont want his size to be a problem. please is their anything we can do to increase his size the quickest or anything we can try? he told me about this before we see eachother, he said hes ashamed of it and hes worried that he wont please me. please help.
2007-01-04 14:47:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
please be serious in your answers
2007-01-04 14:56:22 · update #1
Yes, he is big enough. My husband is the same size.
I'm surprised you're making such a big deal out of this.
2007-01-04 18:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no quick fix, and the only surefire way to see permanent results involves surgery. And it's just not worth all the trouble, not to mention the money. The first inch and a half of the vaginal opening has waaaay more nerve endings than the rest of it, anyways, so tell him not to sweat it. It sounds more like a case of 'pre-performance jitters' which is perfectly normal for two people talking about becoming sexually active with one another for the first time. The fact that he's a virgin probably factors in too, particularly considering the fact that he's aware you aren't. If you genuinely care for him, the fact that he's concerned with pleasing you should mean much, much more than what he's packing.
2007-01-04 15:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a technique called "jelqing" which originated in the Middle East centuries ago. When young boys reached puberty, their fathers showed them this technique. After many years of using this technique, the boys would grow to become very well-endowed, very capable men.
I won't go into the technique here but I hear that jelqing can provide extra inches of growth and girth within a few months. Do a google search under jelq and you will find a lot of info. Maybe this will help your BF.
2007-01-04 16:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by saintsantiago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i'm in shock! are you serious? lol. i keep looking back at the "i love my b/f dearly" part. how much could you both love each other if your biggest concern is that he isnt big enough? what a shame :( maybe you guys arent as much in love as you think you are. and if that is the case, please let this poor fella go and find himself someone who will love him, and someone that he can comfortably lose his virginity to and not have to be ashamed of his size. and btw...unless you are loose as a goose, 4.5" is plenty enough to satisfy most women. Its not in the size, its in how he uses what he's got.
(btw this is a very serious answer, and i truly am ashamed of the way the world is these days...its such a pity)
2007-01-04 15:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think it is really nice when people say size dosnt matter. It shows they love the man they are with. BUT...sexually speaking...size matters! Anything under 6 or 7 inches just isnt fun. Sure...lips, tongue, and everything else makes up for it a bit. BUT...there is just NOTHING like a 8 or 9 incher! Thats the truth!
2007-01-04 18:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u asked this question a couple hundred times already, its horrible that ur that worried bout it, u say u love him so much but u cant take the fact that he doesnt live up to ur needs, honestly get over it, if u really did love him like u say u do u will be able to get over it, im srry but i dont know why he bothers even staying with you because your such a (couple names i cant say on here cause ill get in trouble) but either way, use the techniques others gave you on the other hundred questions u asked bout it.
2007-01-04 15:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Chikk230 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be realistic, no first time is perfect. It takes a long time and a lot of effort to build a great sexual relationship. He has fingers and mouth also. So he may be able to work some magic. You can also go anal. 4.5 inches is plenty for that.
2007-01-04 15:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by CSM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are the odds your last 3 bf's were all 8"+... slim to none... I think you're full of dog doo
2007-01-04 15:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me. 4 1/2 is good enough.. refer to karma sutra and everything will be fine (trust me)
2007-01-04 14:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by lelenguyen05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares
2007-01-04 14:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋