I need a mature point of view on this. Serious answers only please!
see the link:
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2007-01-04 14:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by Heartache 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-01-04 14:38:54 · update #1
I guess you have to ask yourself some serious questions about why you hate her. And then if you are an adult you have to see her in the same light that you would see any other adult.
We see our parents differently than other people and we are less accepting of their human qualities than other people. Accept her as you would a stranger and remember that she is human and not wonderwoman.
If she is doing something abusive, stay away from her if you can. Don't try to change her. Accept the fact that she may never change and quit setting yourself up for disappointment. Whenever you constantly expect people to change to fit the ideal that you have created in your mind, then you set yourself up for hurt.
Decide that you will love her. Love is a decision and not an emotion. Love doesn't depend on what others do so much as it depends on our choices. And love doesn't mean letting yourself be in unhealthy relationships and environments. It means being true to yourself and keeping yourself healthy emotionally so that you can encourage others.
2007-01-04 14:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by DebbieLou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your link doesn't work, hard to give advice when we don't know the question.
2007-01-04 22:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by kittenpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to pretend you have a daughter... maybe you will understand a little bit.
2007-01-04 22:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋