i was wondering if i should try out and date a guy and see ware it goes
2007-01-04 14:18:20 · 7 answers · asked by conrad p 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you want to, yes, try it!
2007-01-04 14:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by kherome 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
16 is too young to make any rational decisions about your sexuality. As you mature your feelings and views will change by the week almost until your hormones and growth spurts have stabilized. Don't let anyone slap a label on you right now. If you are gay, bi, or just curious is something you will have to decide on at a later time. Right now just get through your adolescence in one piece. You can worry about sexual issues later. If you must experiment now then I suggest you be extremely careful. Some std's are for life. Good luck and I wish you well.
2007-01-04 14:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sex toys are fun and don't necessarily mean anything about your sexuality.
don't worry about labelling yourself gay or bi. but if you are really curious, and if you can find a guy that is interested in dating or "experimenting" then give it a shot. but at 16, i wouldn't be in a rush to have any sexual contact.. maybe just watch each other masturbate and see if it turns you on to see him naked.. that will give you some clear signs as to whether or not you like men..
2007-01-04 14:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're playing with a toy (regardless of how you're playing with it) doesn't automatically mean you are gay. It just means you enjoy a particular sensation. Remember that either a boy OR girl can join you in that type of play.
2007-01-04 14:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the real thing on the date! Toys come later.
PS - You're gay.
2007-01-04 14:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't rush things just be patient and time will slove everything .. don't ever worry about it ..just live your life as you want , you like doing it with boys go for it , wanna do it with both that's fine ...but don't get worry abou it cuz it's not healthy for you mentally ...
2007-01-04 15:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by Wing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think about men while you masturbate...go for it.
If you think about women while you masturbate, you might not be gay...just curious
2007-01-04 14:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by working man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋