I just got married a while back(8 months) and for the whole time I told my wife that I worked full time out of town. when in reality I work part time and spend all my money on hookers and blow.she found out and said we could work through it. but I like the cheap girls and being high more than I like her what should I do?
2007-01-04 13:57:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
AT LEAST YOUR BEING HONEST WITH YOURSELF. NOW ITS TIME TO BE HONEST WITH YOU WIFE, TELL HER THE TRUTH TONIGHT! THE TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT. I HOPE THEIR ARE NO CHILDREN INVOLVED. NO ONE DESERVES YOU! YOU NEED HELP..AND A LOT OF IT!!!!!
2007-01-04 14:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by cat eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her ASAP. You don't have your life together so why hang around and mess up someone else's life. If you cared anything about her to start with--you would not have agreed to marry her. In another 8 months--the situation will only have gotten worse. You will become angry with her because she won't leave voluntarily, and you will do things to make her leave. In turn she will hold on tighter--foolishly thinking that you want to be held on to when instead you want the opposite. You're trapped by your vices, and there is no way she will ever understand. She can't free you from yourself. Do yourself a favor and let her go. When you get "cleaned up" then maybe....the two of you can have a decent marriage, but at this point---no way. Love is not always about holding on--it can also be about letting go. Good Luck.
2007-01-04 15:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be truthful with your wife. You are not really giving this marriage your all. If you like anything more than you like her, she needs to know so she can move on. You can't give her anything if it's not given from the heart. We sometimes think marriage will change things. Not only are you hurting her but you are hurting yourself Don't continue to live a life of lies. It's true what's done in the dark will come to light. It's better to bring it to the light yourself. Then you have a true chance of changing the situation. Don't lose someone you may really love without taking a good look at what you are doing. Is it really worth it? Try seeking counseling and save your marriage.
2007-01-04 14:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "more than I like her" so obviously you don't love her. Makes me wonder why you married her. As for the girls and the high you need to quit both before you ruin your life beyond repair. What to do about your wife? That is something the two of you will have to work out.
2007-01-06 20:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you shouldn't have done was get married !! Where the hell did you leave your brain. Or did you even have one to start with !! I know where you left it, back in the hotel room with your cheap hooker and your bong !! Get a life !!
2007-01-04 14:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even get married ? If you prefer the latter then you need to stop wasting her time and get a divorce, I am sure she can do alot better than you..... elohssa
2007-01-04 14:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then y did u get married in the first place?
2007-01-04 23:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by allthrottlenobottle2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God help the woman that would forgive you you piece of tihs.
2007-01-04 14:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a liar
your statement is a fabrication
2007-01-04 14:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a true moron.
2007-01-04 14:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋