My husban is in to swinging ! I have had no part in this life stile . He tryes to talk me in to haveing sex wiyh outher men ,all the time .Becouse i do not , We have no sex life ! Last year we bought a house ! So,we do not live togeather .Now he is talking about selling .So we can be closer ! Do not , wish to live wiyh him !Can not take it no more !
2007-01-04 13:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by Fancy Syl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a bigger problem than just swinging. Swinging won't fix a bad marriage, but it sure as heck won't hurt a good one.
The big issue here is you to are not on the same page when it comes to life, your goals, your hopes, your dreams, and your fantasies. You just don't mesh.
You two need to do counseling if you want to stay together. If you don't, go your own ways and find those that share the same ideals and be happy. It's obvious your working harder at torturing yourself and making each other - and yourselves - miserable than you are on making yourselves happy.
2007-01-04 15:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there's no real relationship left. If your husband cannot respect that you are not into swinging, he has no respect for you as a person. Cut your losses now and leave him for good.
2007-01-04 13:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you're asking what should you do, and that is
easy; let him know exactly the way you feel and if he
doesn't change then D I V O R C E is in the making.
2007-01-04 14:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have no sex life, u should not be married, if he wants to sleep with other women, so be it , but hes your man u should not alow it
he should be sleeping with his wife only, if not he needs to hit the road
2007-01-04 13:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by brownieb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a real marriage.... end it & start your own life.
2007-01-04 14:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get a divorce and get out.
2007-01-04 14:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋