help!!!!!!! i like him but can't talk to him?

Question

i like a guy but can't talk to him cuz i chicken out but when i get the courage to talk to him he is with his friends that r football jocks and i get embaressed so how do i talk to him also the guy's i liked in the past didn't like me because they said i was ugly how do i change that

Answer 1

Don't make talking to him such a big deal and you won't get nervous. Just say, "Hi!"

Answer 2

Just by posting this question you have proved that there is no dearth of courage in you. Well done.
secondly external beauty does not last long, it is the inner beauty that counts. from your words all i can dedudce is that your inner self is very beautiful. Try getting some courage and speak yor heart out to the person. if he judges you on the basis of your external beauty, leave him that instant. Remember, you should love that person who loves you not only for your external but inner beauty also.
god bless

Answer 3

If you really like him, you should at least say hi, if the vibe is right then have a conversation that you feel is going to lead you to something, such as learning more about him and his hobbies. Last but not leats do not tell him you like him, let that happen naturally, just do your part by just making him like you first and then let him tell you he like you, but that's only if your action speak for themselves. What i am trying to say is show him you like him with your actions without making a foul of yourself. Happy Holidays. :)

Answer 4

well im a guy and if a girl came upto me infront of my friends id like it better than just alone because i know id be embarresed by myself and probobly make a sorry excuse and leave. Just go upto him and be like " nice game last night you ALL rocked" or something like that. dont be to obviuse because guys think its weird. so just dress to impress, smell good, dont overload on make-up, be your self.

And the other guy who didnt go out with you because yourr ugly is probobly g.ay ( not saying that in a bad way i have nothing against g.ays)

Answer 5

calm down be ur self have a few friends near by to catch u if u faint or if u mess up saying something and they can walk into the convo fix it a go

Answer 6

you can always improve your looks, wear makeup, lose weight, etc, and I doubt you are truly ugly. catch this guy when he's alone and say hello, initiate a conversation about the weather or something. you'll be fine. if he doesn't like you, look at it as being his loss, not yours.

Answer 7

well write him a note talk on im u no stuff that is not really face to face so u dont get nervous then after u really get to no him u should be fine to talk in person and be comfortable

Answer 8

Casually say 'hello' to him in passing, etc. without the others around. If he responds then let it be and let him initiate a conversation.

Answer 9

OK answer mine cause it is a little bit like yours but what you should do is what i do i SOMETIMES walk with him but half way to his house but i do not walk in front of him i walk behind him so maybe you should try doing that if you don't get cot by your parents like i don't get cot hope i help please answer mine thanks

Answer 10

exactly, you must never change who you are (or how you look) for no one except for yourself, i can imagine he must be hot but.. he called you ugly?? what an asshole!! forget about him, you can find someone better just wait and see.