she is having a hard time with this and needs advice on what to do can you help?
2007-01-04 13:51:05 · 16 answers · asked by my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she is 14 years old
2007-01-04 13:57:53 · update #1
yes she wants to know wether or not to keep it i've not been pregnant so i dont know what she is going through.
2007-01-04 13:59:46 · update #2
Since she's only 14 I believe her parents will show more sympathy than hatred towwards her.Just make sure she does not get an abortion.Live with your mistakes.Then again a baby is not a mistake eh.It's a blessing.So go to the library or health centre to find out information on pregnancy and teen pregnancy organizations for her.Okay.Make sure she tells her parents, or at least an adult whom she trusts.
2007-01-04 14:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by reggaesoul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is pregnant first of all be there for her. Ask her what she plans on doing. How old is she?
If shes young go Ob for some idea of how far along she is. If doesn't want to have it abortion is in the phone book (it her choice). If the boyfriend doesn't know try to get her to tell him.
If she wants it be there for her, get books surf the web there are tons of really awesome sites about pregancy. Help her find a good doctor. There are first time moms groups out there so she can talk to other mothers.
2007-01-04 14:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well unless you have been pregnant then it is hard for you to give you advice. Is she asking you wether she wants to keep it or not? Ask again and be more specific you will get a better answer that will help you more!
2007-01-04 13:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asume that she is not married. Then she is going to have a hard road to travel by herself. I hope that she has someone that she can depend on to help her such as a friend. But the most important thing for me is that she is keeping her baby. I respect her for that. She is doingthe greatest gift of all giving life to her baby and she is really a special person. Tell her to check around and she if she could find a support group that will help her. I hope that she has good luck with her baby.
2007-01-04 13:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she can keep it and take care of it then by all means she should keep it. If not the adoption is a great idea. What do her parents think? Be there for your friend. Good luck.
2007-01-04 14:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i bet the parents of your friend don't know yet her condition... well,since she believes you have d capability of helping her to resolve her prob.,then i believe also you deserve to be depend on.. i know you have grown enough and can carry this kind of situation.. so gud luck and do your best to give your friend pieces of advice. it's indeed a great opportunity for you to share your thoughts for her as well as ur friend believes that you're the only person hu cud make her feel better....
2007-01-04 14:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by pretty_ged 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to start investigating different adoption agencies. Your childhood is OVER once you have a baby. Tell her she should grow up; with her legs closed.
She will feel pride at her decision when she gets older. Trust me.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 14:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Margie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to tell her parent or guardian they will be disappointed and angry but this mood will not last forever.The next time your friend need to protect herself from sexual disease and pregnancy by using either a female or male condom.
2007-01-04 14:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by lakarez_forever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just support her the best way you can. Let her know you are there for her. If she is a teen, tell her to talk to her pastor. He will guide her.
2007-01-04 13:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Robin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am very sorry. to abort is a sin and to have the baby soo young is a bother to the parent/guardian.she should not have had sex.
2007-01-04 22:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Betsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋