My best friend won't tell anyone who the father of her child is. And her and my man have been acting funny around one another lately. I just realized today that the child has similar features as my man. The same eyes, same hair, same complexion. He works nights and ususally I talk to her at night. But lately her phone has been turned off and he's been coming home later. Should I confront them or wait until the child gets older to see if the similar features are more pronounced?
2007-01-04 13:18:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This story is completely made up...isn't it??? I can tell you're just bored and probably had a bad day at work. Have a martini and put your feet up. You deserve it.
2007-01-04 13:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by jackiemm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is going to her place then have him followed. Don't use your car or one that he will notice. In fact you don't really have to follow him. Just have a car park around her place and yet out of his sight, but where you can see. If he goes into her place then you know they are doing something. You can either confront them together that night or early morning, or you can wait till he gets home and ask him about it. That is all on you.
The child though might be different. Babies look a like. You can't base it on looks. For example my oldest daughter is not my husbands. Many people swear she looks just like him. He is Korean and she is American, no Asian ancestry in her at all. It does sound strange that your friend refuses to say who the father is. it might be she doesn't know who it is and is too embarrassed to say so.
Either way I suggest you find out if he is cheating on you.
2007-01-04 21:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be torturing yourself to wait, and it would eventually have an effect on our relationships with the friend and the hubby. If you ask, they'll deny it. Okay, so lately, you have reason to be suspicious, but how about nine months before the child was born?
2007-01-04 21:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is some reason she won't tell u who the daddy is, and some reason why her phone is turned off. there is no way of knowing the truth here, unless u ask him, but your chances of getting the truth are slim. there is no reason why she should be afraid of telling u who the father is, unless the child belongs to your man.
2007-01-04 21:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk with your hubby about this and see what his reaction is.
you could wait it out until the child grows but that would seem like it would take so long. know where your hubby is at all times an check up on him to see if he is being truthful or not, when she is out later.
2007-01-04 21:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to let them both know what you know. NO he is NOT your man anymore. Your so called best friend was never really your best friend. This sounds like soap opera drama!! NO you SHOULDNT wait!! TAKE ACTION NOW!
2007-01-04 21:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say confront them. Why wait? You don't need the stress of not knowing.
2007-01-04 21:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them now at a time when the chld is of an age whereby
he/she won't be traumatized by the confrontation you risk causing.
2007-01-04 21:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? Ask them now. You want to move on with your life.
2007-01-04 21:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them!! If its true they are both backstabbers! Forget them and Find someone else! They aren't worth it.
2007-01-04 21:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Bunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋