2007-01-04 13:15:04 · 25 answers · asked by Lexie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Are you kidding? Talk to your parents, please.
2007-01-04 13:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest looking into DNA testing as a start. Secondly, you may want to look into programs like Birthright International, or a local healthy mothering program. These programs will help you decide how you want to pursue your pregnancy; raising the child or adopting him/her out. This is a critical time; there are many pros and cons to raising a child, especially at a young age. It is an enormous financial commitment, and will affect social life and the normal ease of earning an education. I would suggest talking to a counsellor. There is financial aid available to single parents, but by no means is it enough to support a child. Please seek a healthy mothers, healthy babies program and find someone to talk to.
2007-01-04 21:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by great_expectations 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What in the world are you doing sleeping around at the age of 13?? You will have to wait until the baby is born and get a DNA test.
2007-01-04 21:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Blondi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off do you remmber which one you slept with one what day. sperm lives 3-7 day. From the last day of your menstural count 11-13 days and that your ovulation day. If you slept with one one week. and then the other the following your answer from this will be clear. If not you'll need alot of time to think, cuz you'll be explaining. also go to the doctor to find out how many weeks, maybe that will help!!!! good luck
2007-01-04 21:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by yessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to get a DNA test to be sure. In order to obtain child support from the father, you'll need to prove which one of the two "men" is the father. You can't file for support until after the child is born.
First, file for support from your boyfriend, and have him take the DNA test. If he is the father, then you won't have to deal with his best friend. If he is not the father, then file for support from his soon-to-be-ex best friend. Have him take the DNA test, too. Once the father is determined, the courts will order support.
Good luck.
What happened to contraception?
2007-01-04 21:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get a dna test when the baby is born. I hope that your okay but your problably scared because you got pregnant so young. Everything happens for a reason. Hope you can get through this storm. Good luck and God bless you and your baby.
2007-01-04 21:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You shouldn't be having sex at 13. When the baby is born you should do the test to find out. Good luck.
2007-01-04 21:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a lot of responsibility for a 13 year old but now its done and you need to step up. first you need to tell your parents and then each of the boys. i really hope everything works out for the best. good luck!!!
2007-01-04 21:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by elaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny i understand cause im 18 and 35 wekks preg and im honestly not sure if my lil peanut is my ex boyfriens or the guy i just slept with one time!!!! i mean im pretty sure its my ex boyfriends but not sure well is your boyfriend supportive of it cause if he isnt then it doesnt matter whos it is but if your pretty sure it is then u need to tell him u dont know if its really his or his friends and if he reacts badly then **** it and leace him!!!! are you parents supportive of this cause youll get through it no matter whos baby it is as long as youve got a good support system!!! hope this helps you out!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 20:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. for one. Your Too too Young. And its a big responsibility taking care of a baby. Hello your 13, And to not know who your baby's Daddy is , its Sick. Good luck , I'm going pray for you,
2007-01-04 21:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have a problem. Go to your parents and tell them what you told us. They will be upset but they will help you through this and they will help you pin down the father.
2007-01-04 21:19:30 · answer #11 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋