We didn't even go out. We were supposed to, but she didn't show up.
She was perfect. She respected me, she actually liked me, and she was smart, too. Now that's hard to find.
Now this jerk who was my friend (he isn't anymore because he keeps callin' me Shin) is with her, and I haven't had a great conversation with her since. That is the whole I've been sad for the past few days.
She was the perfect girl, now she's gone. I can't find someone EXACTLY like me or anywhere close.
What the Hell am I supposed to do?
2007-01-04 13:10:54 · 27 answers · asked by ZZ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I can't let go!
What chance do I have for a girl?
2007-01-04 13:13:27 · update #1
It's sucks, but in time you'll get over it. And as you get older, you'll get out into the world and start meeting more people, so you'll have a good chance meeting another girl that will treat you a lot better. But I do have to say that if the girl stood you up, she didn't really have respect for you or like you. She's not worth your attention.
2007-01-04 13:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by alimagmel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should call and tell how you felt . But if your friend steped in and he new how you felt you need to tell him. Next if she says she wasn't interested in you. You need to move with your life and stop dwelling on the girl. There are alot nice people out there and if your a nice guy at the right time. That woman will come around when your ready.
Put your self out there talk to other girls as if you are looking for just a friendship. So they get to know the true you. Just be your self and you will meet someone that is right for you.
But remember if htis girl is not interested move on and maybe be her friend. then eventually she might see something else that she didn't see before.
2007-01-04 13:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nonsense - where there is one there is more. Your girl is one in a million - that means there are 600 people just like her in China alone. You have 2 choices here:
Pick yourself up and move on. The new is always greater than the old - as terrific as this last girl is, the next one will be even better. Know it.
or
Go get her. Woo her. Court her. All is fair in love and war and if you really think this girl is something special, then why not ignore this no longer friend (assume she is casually dating him) and see if you can get her to be with you.
Peace!
2007-01-04 14:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay. 1. Forget about her. She stood you up and is now with some guy you don't like because he calls you Shin. She can't really be respecting you if she stood you up. 2. Stop being so closed minded. How do you know there are no other "perfect" girls out there? Moping over her isn't going to get you anywhere in terms of meeting someone new and great. 3. You didn't go out. 4. You are not going to do anything about it. Except go out and enjoy not having to share yourself with anyone. I sound mean, but all of this makes a lot of sense in my head, so head up and go listen to your DDR music. Because I know you do that. I think. AHAHAHAHAHAH!
2007-01-04 13:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She can't be that perfect if she stood you up and is now dating your best friend; so get that silly thought out of your head. A girl who'd rather date your friend is not someone you want to be with; and you're right, you're never going to find anyone EXACTLY like you because that would take the fun out of being with someone.
This girl did not respect you nor did she like you enough to honor your date and your friendship with your bf. You have to meet new people and forget about her. There's people out there who WILL respect you and love you for who you are; you have to try to let people in. Good luck!
2007-01-04 13:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 23:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to calm down, okay? this isnt the end of the world. shes not perfect obvioulsy, cause she ditched u. maybe there is someone like u, u just havent realized it yet...and ur just supposed get over it i guess, even though it is hard...
-hetty♥
2007-01-04 13:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by (miss hypnotic) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she was really the girl for u and you're sure that she knew how you felt for her, she wouldn't have gone w/ your friend just like that.it always takes time to meet the right person, you just have to meet alotta wrong ones to know when its right.dont give up on love tho.
2007-01-04 13:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by ?¿? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up. Meet hundreds of other "perfect girls". Find one that REALLY is perfect and then treat her like gold for the rest of your lives.
2007-01-04 13:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she stood you up, then she did NOT respect you, and she is definitely not worth your time and anguish. Find somebody better - I promise that there's someone out there who IS right for you.
2007-01-04 13:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋