I have been with my man now for eight years and i have never liked sex. He is wanting it more often and i cant stand it. I dont fantisize about anyone else. I dont want anyone else. I love him and cant deal without him. We have tried everything from different sexual positions to threesomes. Nothing has interested me at all. And i dont like oral either.
2007-01-04 13:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by leanne1303leanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hi. have you been to the doctor to get something to increase your sex drive? you could try getting hypnotised to see if there is a reason that you dont like sex. maybe you have supressed memories. some birth control decreases sex drive. especially the implanon.
2007-01-04 13:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by biancajh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I have no idea as to how you develop this problem, however as a man I do know what the ramifications of this problem are, from a mans perspective: emotional detachment, frustration, anger & isolation are but a few symptoms, others include guilt, insecurity and loss of identity, now the interesting thing is that I will bet you have already experienced those range of emotions prior to meeting your man and have brought them into your current relationship, denying him for whatever reason, whether it be lack of interest, religious belief, the phase of the moon, I don't really give a toss, will take all those hidden feelings and project them into his psyche. Now I believe you need to laugh about this a bit more, not worry about it too much, talk openly at every opportunity when the subject is brought up (Do Not Roll Eyes, you'll have him on RSVP in 2 seconds) loosen up a little, free up some head space, grab more you time, praise yourself and give yourself the chance to feel sexy, then if required, involve your husband, or alternatively do nothing about it and watch your man turn absolutely feral (if your lucky, that is, he may leave on such a 'trivial' matter.) Reminder majority of men will rank as number one in relationships - sexual fulfilment, companionship, emotional connection, validity all that other stuff comes after one. Alternatively, you need to demand his affection and get the treatment you deserve as a woman if he wants an inch of a chance to get with you.
2007-01-06 00:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well have you tried sex toys and others things such as lube to try and boost you
if they dont work or havent try the website talksexwithsue.com
good luck
2007-01-04 21:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your man your lesbian and like *****
2007-01-04 21:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋