My daughter is the love of my life. My dad wasn't there for me when I was a child. I promised myself to a better father to my child than my dad was to me. My wife doesn't try to keep contact with me and my child. She claims it is my fault that she had a baby by another man. I relocated to another city to get established for my family. And she got pregnant while I was away working for my family.
2007-01-04 12:29:22 · 25 answers · asked by Quarterback 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes she cant be trusted! Sorry to hear than man!
2007-01-04 12:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay close to both of the children and make the other guy pay child support for his child. Its not the kids fault that she is a selfish b_____. The longer your child lives with you and you are supporting the child (the one thats yours) the better case you have down the road. If you don't want her, then divorce her. If your asking this question it sounds like you have an idea of what you want to do. The children matter more than her. But don't make your life miserable being with her.
2007-01-04 12:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is grounds for an adultery based divorce. Good luck and I'm sorry to hear that your marriage was unsuccessful.
2016-05-23 04:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she starts showing remorse (rather than blaming you), your marriage likely can't recover from her infidelity.
In some states, a child born of a marriage is presumed to be the husband's child.
You need to meet with an attorney to learn your rights, well before you and the baby start bonding.
You may have the ability to walk away and leave the other man to raise this child. You may not.
Talk with a family law attorney in your area to learn your options.
www.CustodyIQ.com
2007-01-04 12:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about yours & your daughters happiness. Honestly I wouldn't want her around my kid. I'm a woman & it's not so much the cheating part that bothers me but the fact that she left your child to have another. Find a good woman who will love your child & you but make sure you get custody but never keep the child from its mother. Let her visit & show her what she's missing out on
2007-01-04 12:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you are wonderful to be the kind of dad you are. You will always be remembered by your child of how much you stood by her. I would definitely get a divorce. That is so awful of her to blame you. You certainly didn't tell her to lay down for that guy. Keep in mind that it's her loss. Good luck!!
2007-01-04 12:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by JACQUELINE T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should divorce her on any grounds you can. Get a lawyer and discuss custodial rights and child support issues with them before you have any papers drawn up. Make certain that you are completely aware of your rights as a father before you take any legal steps.
2007-01-04 12:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by bizou_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to say whatever you will believe to take the blame off of her. So, it's your choice to let the marriage dissolve since you were not the one to commit adultery. You can still take good care of your daughter and make sure she don't take her anger out on your child behind loosing you if it comes to that.
2007-01-04 12:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your family didn't want you to be away from them. I'm not condoning what she did. I think she is a whoa but if your family didn't want you to be gone why were you. Now that you know she likes the weenie maybe you should offer to try the mfm with her. At least that way you are part of the action
2007-01-04 12:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by cindy_cardine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to divorce her if thats what you want to do. or if it was just a one time thing you can forgive her and go on with your life togather it really does just depend on your relationship and what the reasons were that she cheated but if shes blaming you for what she did she is not sorry or she would say i screwed up and im sorry.
2007-01-04 12:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in the U.S. adultery is not longer grounds for divorce...I suggest you come up with another angle.
2007-01-04 14:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋