2007-01-04 12:12:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Quit worrying about who is prettier. To many men, a pretty woman is the one who is confident and fun to be around. She may be getting the boys because she isn't all stressed over who is prettier.
2007-01-04 12:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes looks can sometimes play a roll, but sweety you need to have confidence in yourself. No matter how pretty you think your friend is you need to believe in yourself and know that you can get as many guys as her if not more.
I have friends just like you and they won't go out with me because they say the same thing. The thing is I know that there are men who are going to find other women prettier than me, and that is ok I am not worried about that. I know that when I go out I look good and there will be someone out there for me. You just need to have that confidence. Men can tell if you have confidence. You can do it! GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-04 20:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls/women do this all the time......why???
From an older but not old woman..........contrary to your opinion I'm hoping that I'm right -you are probably not a physically unattractive girl. I don't know what your age is but don't do this to yourself.
Spend time finding out who you are. For every "pretty" girl there is a Prettier girl...it is endless.
The sad thing is...pretty girls tend to get "used" because they think they are only the look they present and boys/men will always gravitate towards "eye candy". Once they get sex the pretty girl is usually abandoned in conquest for another "pretty" girl.
Do who you are and not what you think a man wants you to be. Pretty is inside and out. If you are looking for a decent relationship...you usually have to wait longer or sift through the garbage until you find a gem. If you are looking for just sex...men may have a perference for "eye candy" but trust me they will accept free will offerings!
2007-01-04 20:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more of a flirt. Guys will perceive this as a sign of self-confidence if you're not afraid to flirt. If you aren't good at it you'll have to practice or ask one of your flirtatious friends to help you. Focus on presentation such as style, fashion (maybe your clothes and hair need a makeover), how you walk, even subject matter. Don't talk about girly things to a guy unless you're just playing and flirting with him. He'll be bored. Talk about current events or something that interests you instead of talking about yourself. Ask questions about him and give thoughtful answers. All these things add up. You don't have to be a "knockout" to get guys. Intrigue them with your mysterious ways.
2007-01-04 20:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by grawby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get guys if you're attitude is that you're denying yourself of your beauty. "My friend is prettier than me (which she probably is)" is not a good enough excuse that you don't get guys. You need confidence, and it will carry out in the things that you do. From the walking posture, to the positive attitude that you feed on to other people, and the other little things. Once you find in yourself that you feel good about yourself, you will find someone when the time is right.
2007-01-04 20:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that she's prettier...she just came across guys who appreciate her kind of beauty ("Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"). You'll find guys who like you (or who admit that they like you) sooner or later.
Don't forget though that physical beauty passes away pretty fast and the only beauty left is the one within you (your character, personality, behavior etc). It's the inside that counts!
The way you take care of you external appearance (apparel, hair, make up, tidiness etc) also counts.
Observe what guys like and then find ways to be more attractive....this doesn't mean you should forget about your personality or copy everything you see at other girls.
Just be yourself and you'll find someone who likes you just the way you are!
2007-01-04 20:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once told by a guy. That he had seen the uglist gal walk into the party and had all the guys after her. She was confindent in herself. She never looked down at the floor or shyed away from answers or questions. She was the life of the party. Because she knew who she was and that she couldnt change what god gave her. Is your friend flirty and fun with the guys? if you say Yes, then it more of her outgoing personality than her looks.
2007-01-04 20:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you are the prettier one it doesnt matter i have always asked my male and female friends why a guy would choose a girl who is less attractive then me over me but who knows they always tell me that a guy will go for the girl that seems to appear more "easy" if you know what i mean! anyway different guys like different things so dont rush it and dont worry your day will come soon enough...although making some changes to your look might help do what makes you feel good about yourself!!!
2007-01-04 20:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, you sound like my best friend. She is so jealous of me because she thinks I'm so pretty and everything and most of the guys she liked wanted to go out with me. Of course I turned them down, I just couldn't do that to her. Our friendship is way more important. You really don't have to be jealous of your friend, it's not her fault the guys like her. And I'm sure she doesn't do it to hurt you or make you envious of her. In fact, you can even learn from her. What does she do to get those guys?..Maybe its the way she dresses or is she really outgoing?..I'm very shy but guys seem to like me just as much as other girls. Anyways, when you feel like you're not good enough for a certain guy, just think to yourself that maybe they're not good enough for you. And it may seem like you'll never find true love now...but just wait & in time you'll find the right one...it just takes time.
2007-01-04 20:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well: see yourself can tell her that "Alot of things could help"
just doing stuff different and more ideas to share trust, kindness
happyness , joy , because these are needed " In real life today"
then you'd has work it out just one step at a time plus don't rush
take it slowly express feelings among men !
Good Luck
2007-01-04 20:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋