all my boyfriend do is get attitudes now. he always mad at something. and i be tryna cheer him up and then he makes a smart comment like "i dont have time for you".i dont know whats wrong with him...he always talking bout he dont have no money. he says im spoiled and rich and he isnt so it seem to me that he is taking it out on me that he dosnt have no money. i dont know what to do im tired of all of his attitudes. idont know what to do. i dont wonna break up
2007-01-04 12:05:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
this was the 1st time he got mad at me because i wouldnt give him no money. im not rich,its just my dad has a lot of money cause he is a police officer. i dont even give him money he give me money
2007-01-04 12:13:19 · update #1
Thats a tough situation. Sounds to me like he is jelouse of your money, but its not like your just going to let him free load off ya right! Maybe you should take some time apart and see what happens. It might be the best thing for your relationship. If you guys are meant to be then it will happen. right? If you love something let it go. If it comes back, its meant to be. I know its tough and it sucks to go through this kind of stuff, but hold in there. things can only get better. You might find another guy who sweeps you off your feet, or your boyfriend might realise what he would miss and straighten up. good luck!
2007-01-04 12:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by blonde 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well if he doesn't take care of you and treat you like he should...then move on. From the sounding of it he must not really deserve you. If he's jealous then he needs to get over it and or leave or straighten up. There are other fish in the sea and you'll probaly find someone better. If you really want to try and work tjis out maybe you should try and talk to him and see why he's acting like that. If you two are close it may be becuase he is close to you and you're the person he can take things out on and know that you won't break up with him. I hope everything works out. If you want anymore advice e-mail me.
~good luck~
~ML
2007-01-04 12:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by ML 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are both young. Dating is relationship training. It is good that you are developing skills in patience and understanding, but there is a limit to how much bad behavior you should tolerate. Do not let yourself fall into the habit of being verbally abused. Be willing to move on to someone who will appreciate you and treat you with the respect you deserve.
P.S. Also, it is better to be alone (dateless) than to be with someone who makes you miserable.
2007-01-04 12:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria1061 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him! why would you want to go out w/ someone who doesnt treat you well? oh and what makes you think that "i dont have time for you" is a "smart comment"? i wouldnt let anyone get attitudes w/ me!!
2007-01-04 12:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by soada 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because he might want to like you and he's waiting for a reaction like "nicely merely ask her out in case you extremely like her, and end going for the incorrect variety, you want to understand which sort of female matches you".....
2016-12-01 20:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have much of a choice he will bring you down all the time. especially about money. and i don't know how old you are but i can guarantee you will find someone else. not to insult you don't quit school. you language skills are horrible.
2007-01-04 12:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by inna357 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
try to take him somewhere nice. like a fancy restaurant. or try to find him a job or a better job. I this stuf doesn't work, than just give it time.
2007-01-04 12:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by spoiled_milk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would tell him next time you talk to me like that this relationship is over because a man should not be treating a woman like that =]]
2007-01-04 12:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's jealous and resentful of you. I would break up with him and find someone who's loving, attentive, and appreciative.
2007-01-04 12:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
telll him u guys r gonna take a break unless he changes his attitude
2007-01-04 12:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋