Why are all girls hatin' me?

Question

"You're such a nerd."

"Dude, your face is jacked up."

Quite common around the time of last year. For the past 2 years (2005-present), a ton of the girls I've known were so mean to mean. (In 6th grade, I hung around popular people, don't ask why.) Now that is still going on, when all the mean guys get the girls and most of the nice guys get squat. I am a nice guy to be around, but so far, I've been quiet and emo-ish.

Man, maybe it's rap and crap like that. Maybe that's what taught people to be mean to people like me.

Why all the hatin'? Why no compliments from girls at school?

Maybe this is a dream. Maybe I'm in high school now, making out at the movies with some hot chick. Maybe I am, maybe I ain't.

Answer 1

dude, i bet that's not all the girls
those r probably just the ****** ones
and sry but so wat if ya r smart? (i kno exactly wat u mean bout this cuz im supposidly a "nerd" too)
it just means its one thing ur better at then them :D
and "ur face is jacked up!" EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
some ppl just need to get that thro their thick skulls
and u'll find the rite girl
the one that doesn't go for the mean guys
and u kno, some girls like the emoish type *half smile
but just b urself and try (hard) not 2 care wat this mean girls say

Answer 2

ur not a nerd and ur face isnt jacked up. nobodys hateing u and heres a complitment even though i dont know u...

i like ur shirt. wanna go to the movies? lol

did that make u feel better? and its not a dream, its life. and i hate it. i feel emo all the time, well maybe not emo but sad and moody. and i hate rap, no offense to anybody who likes it...have a great day *hug*

-hetty♥

Answer 3

ok it's not ALL the girls. you c, there's the mean slutty "popular" girls, and the usually slightly nicer emo-ish geekier group of girls. I belong to the normally-mean-but-not-that-bitchy-geeky-sometimes-emo-fish-lover-person. which is y my breakdancer crush hates me:(

ah well...sometimes we mean it as a joke, 4 example, i say"haha alex ur glasses are crooked" without meaning to hurt his feeling(im pretty sure his feelings r not hurt), i mean, im joking ok??

but...sometimes we do mean it when someone is p*ssing us off, like when olivia(not a guy but close enuff) insults my fish and my dog.

Maybe it's just that you're talking to the wrong group of girls, the "hot" ones are usually the bitchy ones.

Just b the nice u and b flirty(not 2 much so it makes ppl puke and not 2 much it's slutty and gay)

Answer 4

ahh, don't worry about it. Those mean guys go no where. Just keep your head up, smile, keep being nice but be flirty, and remember that girls are people, too; nothing to be afraid of. I always thought the same thing about myself, then one day i realized that years of observation gave me an edge most guys dont have.

Answer 5

if you are truly nice, sweet and caring then its the girls problem!im POSITIVE %100 that the right girl WILL come around soon! if you try not to look for love then love shall come!

Answer 6

I think they are trying to say you are unattractive in other words when they say your face is jacked up but ignore those girls.

Answer 7

well alot of girls that it is cool to be mean to boys and that it gives them power but they should't do it everntually they will outgrowit some of them will and they will come to be themselves

Answer 8

tell em dont hate the playa, hate the game......i dont care what girls think of me, with a pocket full of cash, they all come back

Answer 9

Maybe because they are not interested

Answer 10

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