Well im 15 and i enjoy my life...but as for the old sayin...that supposedly ur teen years are the best ones of ur life i doubt that...becuz its the dreaded years...of ridicule cuz ur not skinny enough, or u wear the wrong clothes, pimples, style, ugly hair, or ur just never good enough...etc...if you been through it u'll understand...which is pretty much everybody here..but thats besides the point...What im really trying to ask is how do i overcome peer pressure, ridicule and not fittin in..period?
so i would appreciate the help and no stupid remarks! thanks lots love...
2007-01-04 12:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ugh. Teen years. They suck so much.
I get teased so much for being overweight. People in my school that i've never spoken to before come up and ask if i sit on people! It really hurts. SO much.
The only way to really get through it is to have a support system.
I rely on my friends so much. Yesterday I was insulted for my weight and i talked to my best friend just to get my mind off it.
The best way to get over all that sh*t is to basically set your mind to "Not Giving a Crap" mode. Be yourself. I've learned to live with my weight. Don't get me wrong, I exercize and eat well...its just genetics. You just need to remember that everyone is different. It's really hard to set your mind to this; but it's SO worth it. List your good qualities, type them up, laminate them and post it on your bathroom mirror. Make friends with the right type of people (by which I mean not druggies etc.). Make friends that will stick by your side no matter what. Life is good. It really is. And teen years are probably the best, although it doesn't feel like it now. We are learning and changing so much. Our entire life is built around how we live as a teen, so make the best of it! I know I'm trying to!
Good luck!
2007-01-04 21:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by bec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know exactly what your going throught because Im going throuhgt it myself, but ive learned how to overcome it.....yes i kno this will sound sortof cheesy ...but be yourself...im serios lastyear i tried to be some ditzy blonde girl but it didnt work fro mne because i knew and i think everyone else did too, the t im not thast girl, im smart, utgoing, loud,and so VERY talkativee :D
but
what i can tell you
is
everything ends
so no matter how tought of a day or week your having, it will end and you will have a better day/week.
i promise.
lol
but
when someone puts you down, for superficial things like not being skinny ebough or having pimples, jsut be liek, i know im a better and more beautiful person on the inside
and whatever other people think,it doesnt matter
basically
say
**** you
to negative comments
and thanks for positive ones
and
most of all
be who you are
not who someone else wants you to be
yes
again that sounds superrr cheesy
but
im serious its true
2007-01-04 12:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secret Life I know Teen Mom is all real but Secret Life because I love Amy's hairstyle lol teen mom is too real for me!
2016-03-29 08:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am older now, but I think the teen years are the hardest you will go through-the best is yet to come. Don't worry about fitting in-just be yourself and if people don't like it then too bad for them.
2007-01-04 12:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never knew one person that thought the teen years were the best. I personally think that Middle school through 10th grade were the hardest. Don't worry, it does get better! Just worry about your grades, your friends and your family and forget about all that other nonsense...it's not worth it!
2007-01-05 01:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your saying....right now you feel soo out of place, but to get rid of it is know who your true friends are. If if you feel depressed write in a journal, or talk to some one you trust. Good Luck!!
2007-01-04 12:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No teen years not the best.
2007-01-04 12:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a time to screw around. You don't have to leave your friends to go to work. No worries!
Get a myspace profile
2007-01-04 12:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by maddsk8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav no clue
that's a hard one
oh i got something
try not to let it bug u as much of wat ppl think, i kno ikno, its like one of the hardest things ever (im 13) but ya gotta try
im going thro the exact same thing rite now and i hate it
HATE IT! HATE IT! HATE IT!
but good luck!
2007-01-04 12:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Here I Stand 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a teen and its not that bad.
teen years are the hardest, but we have to get threw them.
;)
2007-01-05 04:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋