would you date/marry a guy who's 16 years older than you?
2007-01-04 11:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i would if i loved him. my husband is 13 years older than me. i'm 21 and he's 34. we have been together since i was 18. we love each other very much.
and i know he loves me and it's not for the sex only. trust me on this. we don't have sex often. the other night was the 1st time in about 2-3 months. and we never think about our age. we are both very mature.
i don't think there is anything wrong with the age difference. just make sure it's something you really want. bc a lot of times it's not what you thought it would be.
2007-01-07 13:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? That makes a big difference. For example, if you’re a 20-year-old dating a 36-year-old, then that 16-year age gap represents a huge difference in wisdom, maturity, life experience, etc. On the other hand, if you’re a 30-year-old dating a 46-year-old then the gap in those areas is (hopefully) smaller simply because you’ve had a chance to gain some life experience and such.
But, the bottom line is it's your decision. If you're an adult, then you can date anyone you want. If you're a minor...RUN!
2007-01-04 23:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would if I thought the relationship was going somewhere. I've always been attracted to older men. I find them sexy and seasoned.
2007-01-04 20:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 years? Personally no.....but to each their own ... just realize when your 50 he will be 66... that is a big gap.
2007-01-04 22:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋