I am usually a smart girl. I am very shy actually, but I haven't been acting like myself lately b/c i don't like the real me. I've dumbed myself down. I need to bounce back. How can I change for the better or accept myself the way I am?
2007-01-04 11:35:35 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have you no respect for yourself? don't do that to "fit in". just be yourself and don't make excuses for who you are.you won't be happy until you are yourself. my sister was really smart and independant, but to get the man she wanted, she had to pretend she was dumb about stuff, he didn't allow her on the computer anymore because he didn't understand them. he controls the money, he says who she can talk to, when she can go places (and if he thinks she needs to go) he tells her when to eat what to eat and has even kept her from her family because they don't approve of the guy.
get the picture (or maybe i should say nightmare?)
2007-01-04 11:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your the only person that can answer that question because you know whats best for you and your life and self. But i've been thru the same thing and theres not really a way you can change it you just have to let life run its course and then you'll be better but you have to be patient
2007-01-04 19:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by ms.fab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like the way you are,,, that would require some deep thinking,,, find things that you donmt like and work on them.. also try to poiont out the best things about yourself so you will be judging your self on a balanced basis... slowly change the things you dont like an emphasize the thiongs you do like
2007-01-04 19:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by road runner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever change who they are for anyone else. If people don't like u for who u r then forget them. U can still have as much fun as everyone else being yourself
2007-01-04 19:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Chesty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to think about good stuff... Make sure no one tells you to be anyone else if you don't want it...
2007-01-04 20:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Shopaholic Pwincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe spirituality can help you.
2007-01-04 19:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋