We have been together 6 years but now were having problems. She keeps telling me she is happy 1 day and sad for 3. She says she wants to break up but then we wind up staying together. I ask "am i forcing you to be in this relationship?" she says "no". When she is out she calls and texts me saying things like "i love you" "i miss you" and i don't answer. When i ask her why she doesn't want to stay together she says i might be happier with out you. She says she still loves me but doesn't like me. When we hang out most of the time she feels unhappy.
I dont undertsand how she can just change her mind so rapidly and if she really wants to break up. I asked her should i move on or are we going to work it out? She says "i dont know, i want to work it out".
2007-01-04 11:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like she is totally confused or has bi polar
2007-01-04 11:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you don't respond to her calls, or texts saying she loves you? Well why not? She may be trying to get affection and passion and compassion from in different ways that she needs to lift her and make her feel loved by you.If you don't you need to tell her and show her how much you love her. Also she may need some compliments. If this isn't the case You need to ask her why she seems unhappy and take it from their.
2007-01-04 11:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you didn't respond to her text messages,but the thing I think you should ask her,is why she doesn't like you? What has happened to cause her not to like you? Do you take her for granted or show her you love her? Sometimes words are just words.But showing how you feel with action, can speak louder than any words can.
2007-01-04 12:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her her space and stand in the wings and wait for her to decide but if she takes to long u go on with ur life and find someone for u to love and be happy with
2007-01-04 12:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by bowpeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be in this situation for long time!! if you are not married then ask her if she want to marry you next week! if not then tell her that in 6 years she was not able to make up her mind then you think it wont work out...
2007-01-04 11:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by AJ Khan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow she is complicated alittle confusing, maybe you should jus give her space, maybe she doesnt know what to do..... Most of us are like that. We only need time... Love her thats all
2007-01-04 11:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Shae-Shae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she does like u but it also sounds like shes very confused with wat she wants from all of this... or maybe she just playin with u. how long have she been like this? maybe u guys should take her to a doctor to have her checked up.. give her some time n space just to chill.
2007-01-04 11:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by lito-azndr3am3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt know what she wants, she like another guy? or just tired of u? or are u being an ***??
2007-01-04 11:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because she is a woman.
2007-01-04 11:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋