So i was actually saying that i'm afriad of pregnance, coz of the pain of delivery, but i love kids, i want to have my own kids but i'm really scared, it might hurt. And i'm still 18, maybe because of that or ... ?
What should i do?
2007-01-04 11:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Im pregnant and 18 and like kids too. Im scared to death of birth tho. But when your actually pregnant i think it will change you im so exicted i dont really think of the pain just of the baby thats coming into my life.Its a really good feeling. Goodluck
2007-01-04 11:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bens Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if it weren't for my accidental pregnancy I would still be thinking the same as you.
You are young, so it may change, but what I will say is that I didn't ever want to get pregnant because I am terrified of sickness, and a complete wuss when it comes to pain.
My pregnancy was sickness free, although I did have dreadful dizziness that made me quit my job when I was 10 weeks pregnant.
The birth hurt, but there are things that can lessen the pain, or an epidural that can knock it out completely.
Strange as it seems, my pain felt natural, and although I didn't like it being there, it was something that I just went through- with only gas and air, and nothing for the birth., I think I was in too much pain to think about it's severity!
And it's only a few hours of pain out of the whole of your life- not very long if you think about it.
When you're in a position to have children, it probably won't be as bad as you imagine.
2007-01-04 19:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 18 I was scared too, but I was 18 and no where near ready for a baby or what it took to bring one in the world. As you mature and get to that point in your life you begin to except everything that comes with it. If you are still afraid of pain, there is always getting a epidural. You don't feel a darn thing.
2007-01-04 19:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by cliffhanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college and get a degree in a rock solid field like computers or a medical field--even a 2 year degree. And get a job, buy a car, get established. In 10 years, when you have your life together and you meet someone you would want to spend the next 60 years with and you date them for a few years, then think about kids.
2007-01-04 19:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by AM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your ready before you have a baby..As far as the pain...well I won`t lie to you..It hurts!! But the minute the baby is born you forget all about it..And the have good pain meds. too..Babies are worth all the pain in the world!!
2007-01-04 19:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are older. It hurts like hell, but it is worth it and you forget all the pain. Trust me being pregnant is the easy part. It's after the baby is born when it is hard.
2007-01-04 19:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have a baby unless you are 100% sure its for you. your still so young, just live you life and you will know when the time is right for you.
2007-01-04 19:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jenni W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have babies when you feel you are ready!
2007-01-04 19:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by livindead_zombie13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-04 19:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋