2007-01-04 10:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I took my husband for granted and rejected him, didn't show appreciation, pushed him away and thought that sex was a chore rather than a need for both couples. It'l be two weeks tomorrow. I've tried to work things out with him, but he's hurt and not sure if he wants to put his heart out there again.
I've gone to counseling, and my problems are above ground and I'm ready to move forward without my destructive behavior. I hope that you will consider marriage counseling for atleast one of you if the other refuses. It will help you, and it will help you communicate and understand your spouse. I suggest opening up the Bible and finding God. He will guide you through this. If you like to read, I suggest The Five Languages of Love, The 5 Apology Languages by Dr. Chapman, The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage, The 10 Stupid Things Couples do to Screw up their Relationship by Dr. Laura Schlessinger, and Relationship Rescue by Dr. Phil.
Feel free to email or IM me if you would like to chat or vent! Take care!
2007-01-04 11:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 years ago we separated for a year. It was over the children.
2007-01-04 10:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too much to discuss online, so your notes for that book or paper will be a little shorter.
2007-01-04 10:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt want his damned coffee anymore.
2007-01-04 11:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by shannon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we divorced due to another woman and him wanting to be with her and not me. not my choice or my doing, but had to Honor his wishes.
2007-01-04 10:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His lack of desire to find a decent job...
2007-01-04 10:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Graham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheated, we seperated, we divorced, i am happy now
2007-01-04 11:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋