Need outside opinion. Lately, I have been interested in a female company. I am happily married, but feel that something is missing. I would never uproot my life and leave my family...NEVER. I just want to try another female. Has anyone out there done this before? Were they any regrets?
2007-01-04 10:52:14 · 12 answers · asked by tw9111 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't do it. If you are looking away from your husband for any reason, then something is wrong. I recommend that you get into marriage counseling right away, or even individual counseling.
And by the way, any kind of affair would hurt your family. Don't tell yourself that lie.
2007-01-04 10:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married so i wouldnt know what thats like but I think that you should try it on for size. See how things go with a female. If things get serious with this female you'll have to confess it to your husband though, unfortunately because that is the same as an affair. Best of luck!!
2007-01-04 10:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know Calvin if you think you might be interested, BUT MOSTLY I THINK!!! YOU NEED TO ASK MIKE!!! What have you got to loose ? really a yes or a no.. ohh thats not going to hurt unless he hits you right in the nose, but why your all friends right or sit with each other heck he may like you just as much and is afraid to ask you because you are talking about Calvin, ask mike then Calvin then let me know how it went I bet you will be surprised:) Good luck don't miss an opertunity!! please life is to short for just a simple yes or no it really does not hurt.
2016-05-23 04:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if it's with another woman, it's still cheating on your husband.
You need to think about the consequences of that. Is a little sexual exploration really worth betraying your marriage? If so, you should probably end the marriage right now because it obviously isn't important to you.
2007-01-04 10:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU STATED THAT YOU WOULD NEVER UPROOT YOUR LIFE AND LEAVE YOUR FAMILY ONCE YO CROSS THAT LINE YOU ARE PUTTING YOUR FAMILY IN A POSITON TO LEAVE YOU. DO YOU HAVE CHILDREN? THINK ABOUT THEM? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR HUSBAND WANTED TO BE WITH A MAN ( SOUNDS NASTY DOESNT IT) YOU BEING WITH A WOMAN WILL SOUND JUST AS NASTY TO HIM. HOW CAN THERE NOT BE REGRETS WHEN YOU LOOSE YOUR FAMILY WHEN. THINK ABOUT WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU IF A VAGINA IS THEN GO FOR IT IF YOU LOVE A PENIS THEN STICK WITH IT.
2007-01-04 10:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Vivimos en los Ultimos Dias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i haven't done it yet, but i am seriously considering trying it. i am the same as you, and with kids also.
i never want anyone to find out, and i will not make it a lifestyle. i just feel that i need to know to satisfy my curiosity. then i can let it go.
2007-01-04 11:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lilac B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to talk with your husband about your relationship. If he's ok with you being polygamous and you two can make polygamy work, then go for it. Either that or you can be monogamous and suppress your desires.
2007-01-04 13:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well unfortunately it is still cheating no matter how you put it -So I honestly don't know what answer is the best to give you --Is it really a deep desire?Maybe you're running from your feelings...If you do try it and it's not what you want,then NEVER tell your spouse cuz it will only end up hurting him..
2007-01-04 10:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Art 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you gust want more just wondering who old where u wen u got married how old r u now u may just need to get it out of your set um
2007-01-04 11:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by askharley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youre not happpy with your partner, ask yourself what you can do to make it better, try new things maybee the 3 of you you never know
2007-01-04 10:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by peterosefan1414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋