My one friend has just came out of the closet and i dont know what to do? I think he is having sexual fantasies about my other friends and myself. Im thinking about kicking his *** and leaving him with an *** beating....or should i wait till he pulls a move on me?
2007-01-04 10:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by titomas1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That is an ignorant thought. Just because a person is gay does not mean that he is attracted to every man. Do you have any female friends? Women who are attracted to men can have male friends without having sexual fantasies about them. The same goes for gay men. Just because your friend is gay does not mean that he wants YOU.
Treat your friend the way you always have, or else you never really thought of him as a friend in the first place. How would you feel if you told all of your firends that all of a sudden you were a different religon and they all hated you for it because you were going to convert them... or something equally lame.
2007-01-04 11:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by I *Heart* Plato 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You think he's having sexual fantasies? Are you sure this is not some sort of paranoia you are having? Or maybe he's messin' with you and your friends? For the sake of your own integrity and honor, don't act out of fear, kicking his *** or anything like that. He probably isn't attracted to you or your friends anyway, gay people aren't some sort of crazy nymphomanics. Are you attracted to every girl you see? Do not let fear control you. And if does come on to you, just tell him you are straight, you are not into him, he'll understand. (Unless he's a douchebag). You were friends before and will be afterwards
2007-01-04 17:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Liberals love America! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you liked him as a friend before you knew he was gay, why would him coming out of the closet be any different? I say don't beat him up. Now on to the fantasies, how would you know if he is or isn't? I think that may be just wishful thinking on your part.
2007-01-04 11:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he wont pull a move on you. listening to how you talk, i dont think anyone in their right mind would be attracted to you. leave him alone, being out of the closet is a tough and scary time so leave him the hell alone and let him know you are still his friend and you dont care he is gay. he needs support, not to be beaten up.
I dont think you deserve him as a friend though.
2007-01-04 10:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by vladkeren44 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
And how do you know that he is having sexual fantasies about you? Are you in his mind?
Do your fears really need to manifest in violence?
If you consider yourself to be a good friend? If you were you wouldn't consider acting in a violent way ; You should be supportive and accepting.
2007-01-04 10:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by C 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you should get raped by him just for that thought. You have the nerve to call him friend after you having the idea of assaulting him just because he came out of the closet.
2007-01-04 11:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is your friend then he is your friend.
example:
you and him go to Burger king you want a salad he wants a whooper is that reason to kick his ***?
I think not so the bottom line is if he likes one thing and you like another it only proves that you are 2 diffrent people and he is not your clone.
now if I was him and know of your idea I would cut ties with you just due to the fact that you are not a true friend to him or you would accept him as he is.
2007-01-04 11:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont beat him up. if he makes a move on you tell him that you are straight. but dont you dare hurt him. gays and lesbians are born the way they are, they didnt ask to be that way. but they deal with it, and you need to also.
2007-01-04 13:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by chikka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because You "think" he might be interested does not mean he is. With that kinda attitude don't think he might be attracted to you any ways.
2007-01-04 10:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sui Generis 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
OMG! this is hilarious...Why dont you be a real friend,and accept him for who he is!
2007-01-04 10:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋