was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, and now she is saying that she like another guy, and she said that i must like the girl i was txtin, and she said what comes around goes around....... she said she just wants to be freinds, i dunno what to do i just want her back.. whats the best thing to do?
Does this mean anything about my ex gf?
i caught my ex kiss another guy it hurts bad i love her still!! she said shes really sorry, she said it wud hurt if she saw me too! she said we arnt together any more, she said that gut ment nothing and that im a beter kisser i dont knw why she said that!she was flirting with me all that night but then she got really drunk! i thought we would end up back together cause she was ringing me the whole time and askin me to go out with her, she said she wants to be freinds..
2007-01-04 10:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you telling your ex you love her?
You guys are hurting each other. Stop it. Agree not to talk so often--take a month or three off from hurting each other--you're cuaght up in a negatively suggestible cycle and too defensive to communicate. It's over and you are punishing each other, IMHO.
2007-01-04 12:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, what you've got here is a moderate case of immaturity in this girl. She is in this dating thing like it's a game. It's not. She is very indecisive and immature. The best thing you could do was start talking to other people. She likes to toy with your emotions. Stay away from her for a while and if it's meant to be she will come back to you. I have been on your side of this story recently, and I just let go. I am not going to wait around and see if someone wants me, I want to be wanted all the time, and they shouldn't have to think about it. Good luck :)
2007-01-04 18:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro shes playing your emotion, you are going to have to let her go because if she felt the same way about you then yall would be together, love is blind you just have to be honest with yourself and understand that you have to move on and you cant deal with that stuff anymore I know, it does hurt when you love someone that dont love you back. If you show that your strong and can move on, it will force her to make a decision rather that she made a mistake and wants you back or that yall can only be friends. But dont let her play games with you, cuz your only going to get hurt more, trust me!!
2007-01-04 19:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Young South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to say away from your ex. Do not answer her calls, do not reply to her texts, IM's, emails, etc. Let her live her life. She doesn't seem very stable to me and I feel she would only be hurting you more if you got back together, because she obviously can't make up your mind. Just let her be, live your own life and move on. It's for the best.
2007-01-04 18:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy-To-Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to sound negitive but your ex seems to have only began wanting you after she found out you were talking to another girl.I think she is still confused and don,t know what she wants...I don,t think i would rush into anything with her,and im also not sure if she can be trusted just yet....be cauious
2007-01-04 18:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is messed up...........Also it sounds like she is using you. Wake up!!!!!!!! Why do you want her to keep hurting you? If you move on you wont have to be put through her games any longer. Don't prolong the torch-er the quicker you let go and move on the quicker you can get through the healing process. Giving in to her will only set you up for more disappointment and constant agony.
2007-01-04 19:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: move on. She needs to find herself first. I know love can be powerful, but she seems to be hurting you. Find someone else you can connect with and knows what she wants that way she nor you will be confused.
2007-01-04 18:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only read half but if she is the ex and you want her to stay the ex don't if you want her back then do it but most girls want what they cant have and if she thought there was another girl that is why she is doing all this now
2007-01-04 18:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her cold! She wants to have her cake and eat it too, she is toying with you big time! Don't be foolish, let her go and find someone who is worthy of you and to hell with her.
2007-01-04 18:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by alessa_sunderland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!!!!! Tell her you just want to date. She wants you in pocket. Exercise your dating techniques
2007-01-04 18:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋