Im 14.(8/25/92) Tia's 13.(10/01/93) Ive been with her for 3 months now.. and she wants to have sex. I KNOW its not right.. and ive been telling her that for that last 2 months. She's a virgin and wants me bad, and thats all she ver talks about. Why does she get mad when i explain no? Why does she get mad and hang up when i explain why its wrong? She thinks its because i hate her that i say no, but believe ME, i want her sooo bad, i just know its not right.. What the **** should i do?!
2007-01-04 10:25:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well I guess that she just doesn't want to be left out because a lot of teens around your ages aren't virgins any more. She just needs to wait a little longer and if she can't then that kind of relationship is wrong. You don't just go out with someone because you want to have sex with them. If she really loves you then she will wait. And you were right to say no. If you really love her then you will do what's best for her and wait also because what will happen if you and her are caught or if your parents find out? It's best to just wait and talk to her. If she doesn't listen then try to convince her that bad things might happen if you and her have sex. It's like if you have sex now then she'll probably want more or she'll get a little out of hand. So again, you were right to say no. I think that the only thing to do now is to talk to her and tell her that you two will just have to wait. That's true love if you both will be able to wait for as long as it will take for each other. Hope that things come out right for you two.
2007-01-04 15:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by MaD.HaTTeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an impressive young man to say NO to sex. Your girlfriend should be flattered that you respect her enough to wait it out and not be in a hurry. Let her know how you feel about her, and that sex is an act and has nothing to do with "wanting someone". Self control is an amazing thing to have. Once you have sex, it is very hard to be in a relationship as a teen (or adult!). I think you are a great guy and if she can't wait to have sex, please find a girl with the same values you have. In the long run, you'll be glad you made this choice!
2007-01-06 14:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Christine B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r VERY rite...she's extremly lucky to have such a noble bf! tell her that ur not in the relationship for sex and if she wants sex there r plenty of other guys in the world....
2007-01-05 06:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tapp that little ***. Sex is scary the first time, but great after wards. She wants it from you, 3 months is more than long enough, even at your age.
2007-01-05 02:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nate H 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that is really really good that u saying no its usually the guy that forces she needs to understand that she needs to wait and if she can not see that u guys need to talk
2007-01-04 18:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_chocolate@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh, your a smarty pants! very good of you! i advise you to take her to a guidance counsellor, or even better, tell someone you trust to explain to her the consequences, good luck!
2007-01-05 06:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur doin the right thing cause its sick and not right to do it
im proud to answer ur question
2007-01-04 22:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the matter over 18. stop it.
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I know, you will not!!!
2007-01-05 08:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by mhrhashemi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, **** that. get some trojans!
2007-01-07 15:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋