If ur used to having sex atleast for 2 years and then u stop completely for a couple of months can it change u physically, psychoogically, or emotionally?? Serious answers please
2007-01-04 10:25:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anna M 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
A normal health person would suffer no harm from lack of sex for a period of time. There may be some emotional issues around abandonment to deal with.
2007-01-04 10:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it would not change you physically. Once you loose your virginity it is gone forever. Its not something that you can get back by abstaining from sex for periods of time. I have gone over 2 years without sex at one point. It didn't physically affect me. But I can understand how you would think that it can have an emotional affect on you, because it sure can! My abstinence was by choice. After ending a bad relationship, and then learning that because of his unfaithfulness, I had contracted the HPV virus. Resulting in multiple surgeries to remove cancerous lesions. This scared me out of any kind of relationship for a few years. Especially any kind of relationship where sex might be involved.
There is nothing wrong with abstaining from sex, if that is what you want. It is not something that can change us if we don't continue to 'do' it. (it's not like a piercing that will close up if you don't keep something in it.)
Actually by choosing not to have sex for a while, you will enjoy it more when you do have sex again, as long as you wait for the time, and the person, that is right for you. Don't do anything that you are not comfortable with. And don't put yourself down because you are not constantly sexually active. Its ok, everybody goes through phases.
Be strong and do what you think is right for you! Never compromise yourself. Its never worth it.
2007-01-04 10:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by mjnight420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys have some serious issues. Have you sat down and had a serious discussion and asked him why he isnt interested in sex with you? Sounds like 7 months ago you did something when you were tipsy and rejected him and that might have had a lasting effect on him. It cant hurt to sit down and talk if he's willing or try a counselor if you both feel your marriage is worth saving. It cant hurt. Husband has to be willing to work on the relationship as well as you. If you both arent going to work on your marriage together then couseling will be a huge waste of time at which time you will have to make the decision whether to stay or go. Marriage is good but requires a lot of compromise and work too :) Best Wishes!
2016-05-23 03:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you had provided more information.
Of course it can be a psychological adjustment and depending on the circumstances, quite a significant one.
Your emphasis in your question seems to be on the emotional impact. What was the context in which you stopped? Was it your choice? Or not? Are you relieved? Or sad? What else is going on?
I wish you well.
2007-01-04 10:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by stonybearwinter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once i didn't masturbate for 50 days and a friend of mine told me that he thinks that this is a bit risky because the law of nature states - if you don't have use for something it disappears(or stops to work)(or something like that).
2007-01-04 10:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by brich_inc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could cause your sex drive to slow down a little. And if you've been in a relationship I'm sure it can cause lonliness too.
2007-01-04 10:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by AK-47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋