Jackass 2. I was mortified. She already knows my opinion of T.V viewing, years ago I told her off for letting my older girls watch South Park. My only recourse is to not allow the boys to visit anymore. However their cousin in 13 and the boys are best friends. How do I enforce my beliefs but not be the bad guy?
2007-01-04 10:07:39 · 31 answers · asked by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I have 2 daughters 19 and 20 in college, doing very well. Don't tell me to lighten up, my kids are turning out well. One works part time in the municipal government, the other shows weekly in horse shows. Never had a problem with either. The boys will be just as well adjusted. Lackm of boundries is what causes problems for children growing up.
2007-01-04 10:13:24 · update #1
I have 2 daughters 19 and 20 in college, doing very well. Don't tell me to lighten up, my kids are turning out well. One works part time in the municipal government, the other shows weekly in horse shows. Never had a problem with either. The boys will be just as well adjusted. Lackm of boundries is what causes problems for children growing up.
2007-01-04 10:13:28 · update #2
It is unfortunate that they have now seen the movie, so there is nothing you can do to erase that. However you can explain to them (something I believe the show also does)that what they do is very very dangerous and is only carried out under professional supervision.
With regards to your sister I would not stop your kids from visiting her house but I would talk to her about the boundaries you choose to set for your kids and tell her that if she wants to allow her kids to watch it, it would be better if she could do this when your kids are not visiting.
Please don't listen to others who say they will be teased if they are not allowed to watch it,it is not our job as parents to worry about this we must attempt to set boundaries and stick to our guns.
Finally I would say to you that as a mother of a 14yr old boy it is very hard to monitor what he watches in other people's houses and in a year or so an 18's movie won't be a big deal.
Stick to your beliefs and remember that your kids also knew that they were not allowed to watch the movie so they too should be told off. Good Luck and don't stress too much.
2007-01-04 10:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by strictmom 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree that jackass 2 is disgusting, but it is very funny. Its just as important that your boys learn the difference between good humor and disgusting acts, that movie has both. Your ultimate goal is to teach your children to become responsible productive adults. If you shield them from everything they will learn nothing! Give them the opportunity to analze for themselves, they will make judgements based upon your example. Trust that your kids will make the right decision. Long story short, you show your kids your beliefs, you dont tell them. Keeping them away from your sisters house will show them that you dont trust them or her and she is a bad person, when the truth is she has different tolerances than you. If I were you, I would explain to them very briefly why you dont like them watching that stuff, and im willing to bet that the next time they have the opportunity to, they will CHOSE not to. The best parents teach their children how and why to make the best choices, they dont make all of their choices for them. This obvously doesnt apply to all things (drugs, sex, etc..) but watching an R rated movie is not terribly extreme. I have 3 boys, 17, 14, and 11. My two oldest can watch whatever they chose, the 11 year old I keep away from sex and violence because he is WAY to young to determine whats acceptable and whats TV. Ask your boys what they liked about the movie and what they didnt like, that should give you some insight on to what they think is ok and not ok. Hope that helps, and keep in mind, your blessed if the only thing your concerned with is your children watching Jackass 2!
2007-01-04 11:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm about that age and watching t.v is OK as long as it has a limit.Try letting them watch t.v with limits and parental control blocks.And jackass #2 is a movie all 13 and 14 year old boys go to see like every weekend.But as a child you are being a rough mom let then watch some t.v.And I watch t.v all the time and i'm an honor Student.And South Park is a good t.v show.
2007-01-04 10:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine/Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your sister did very wrong...But look at it this way what if for some reason (i won't say what ) but you will never see your sister ever again in your life...Then think about how bad your gonna feel for not letting your kids spend the time they wanted with there aunt all because of a movies and some rules...I mean this might seem like a big deal ...But if you look at the big picture it's not that bad where they can't go over and visit there aunt anymore...Think about it..
2007-01-04 10:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 00:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know ur kids, but my nephews did half the stuff i saw in Jackass 1 before it even came out in theaters lol. Kids will be kids no matter what they watch. They'll see it on t.v. or learn it from their friends at school. Im sure ur kids are being raised right, let em' have some fun once in awhile.
2007-01-04 10:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Tucker K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you! It's good to hear that somebody else cares about what their kids see!! If I were you, I would explain to her that if she can't be more responsible with your kids while they are there then they boys will only get to hang out with their cousin at YOUR home. It's so sad that people don't care about what their kids watch let alone how other people want their kids raised.
Good luck. Stand your ground. Also, be sure to have a talk with your kids about what is proper viewing even in other homes.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. It makes it so hard when it's family.
2007-01-04 10:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're being a little too rough in not letting them watch TV at all. Come on they're teenagers, the more you tell them no the more they're going to do it. I would however talk to your sisiter and your boys regarding things they are allowed and not allowed to watch. I do agree with you that they shouldn't have been allowed to watch that movie. I think it's stupid and pointless. You should just talk it out and come to an agreement!
2007-01-04 10:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
How about a compromise? If the boys would miss their cousin, why not have the cousin come visit instead of sending your boys to his house? That way, they get to visit, but you have control when it comes to what they watch on TV.
That way, you won't have to be the bad guy.
Good luck--
2007-01-04 10:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree wiht you. That is a terrible moive and not even appropiate for anyone anyway. I would jsut let your sister know that her son is more than welcome to come to your house, but you are not taking your boys over to her house anymore. Let her know why. She needs to respect your wishes and not let your children view inapporpiate movies. If she tells you she lets her son, tell that it is fine, but you do not. Stand by your beliefs. If she can't understand that is her problem. Good luck.
2007-01-04 10:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by mktk401 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋