Has anyone ever gone home to their parents after a divorce?

Question

If so how was it? my situation is i am 24 yrs old and have been married twice already.My parents could not stand my first hubby who i met while in college at a club where he was an ultimate fighter.I fell head over feel and eloped with him after 3 months.Problems were numerous to say the least he had never graduated from highschool and he was participating in illegal fights to make ends meet.My parent continued to pay for my college tuition but cut off all ties with me and when i graduated college i was 3 months pregnant.After i gave birth to my daughter he became violent and in a fight with me over money broke my jaw.I divorced him and married my divorce lawyer who i thought i was in love with that marriage lasted only a year an half before i found out he was a womanizer and a con-man.I have a three year old daughter and am living in a one bedroom studio in NY.I lost a lot of money thanks to my ex. husband who stole from me.

I am trying to think of a way of asking my parents that would be less humiliating?

Answer 1

3rd divorce, 28 years old, 18 month old little boy and I went home...your parents love you no matter what, you messed up big time, who hasn't...talk to them, apologize for not listening...I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers.

Answer 2

Its never easy to go back home. If your parerts are open to the idea, then yes! I think it is a good idea. You can save money, feel secure, get your confidence back. Just make sure you set clear boundries with your parents. If they have rules, abide by them. It will be an adjustment, but you can do it. Keep in mind that it is only temporary, and have a goal of how long the stay will be. Try to meet that goal. Enjoy the break from your troubles. Love your mom and dad. Take Care

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with making a mistake. The only thing that makes it wrong is if you don't learn anything from it. Quit picking loosers! Take your time and date someone for a couple of years before you marry them. Really get to know them. I think your parents will be willing to help you get back on your feet. Just sit them down and tell them you need them and you regret some of the mistakes you have made. I am sure they will help you. Good luck.

Answer 4

Leaving a house during a divorce does no longer mean infant abandonment. i could advise that if she chooses to go away the place of living wherein the little ones stay, that she artwork at an settlement to furnish the father with usual actual Custody and he or she could take Partial Custody. the father to maintain the little ones in his domicile and the mum to be waiting to have the little ones another weekend and sooner or later throughout the time of the week and function them sleep over and then take them to college day after as we talk. She ought to rearrange to pay some variety of help and function telephonic get entry to to them on the weekends while she does not have them. If the mum and dad can not come to an settlement then she ought to document papers in court inquiring for Partial Custody (or if she has a place for them - usual actual Custody) and then ask for help besides. through exhibiting activity interior the little ones and their ultimate pursuits no court interior the land could evaluate her leaving an abandonment of her parental household projects to the little ones.

Answer 5

I too moved in with my Mom after divorcing after a 15 year marriage. Unfortunately its time for you to eat humble pie and own up to your mistakes to your parents. As a mother yourself, you know that no matter what, you will always love your child, as will your parents. They will be there for you to help you back on your feet. P.S....glad to hear that you got out of the violent relationship, not a good situation for you or your daughter to be in.

Answer 6

wow. I feel so sorry for you. You have had some bad luck here.

I've never gone home to my parents but i've actually thought about it.

I think if you're really down on your luck that your parents would be glad to help you for a little bit. The only thing I worry about is my parents being upset with me.

Answer 7

yes i went home many times to mom and dad, not all that easy, but does work out when your hurt and broke. don't worry about the humiliation or having mom and dad tell you " i told u so" and the lectures they too should be expected. but there really is nothing more comforting after we have been hurt and abused to go home, that's a place we are safe. u may have disappointed your parents but they will be there for u i guarantee it, as mine always were no matter how many mistakes i made and no matter how many messes i got into i could always go home. got to make better choices in men honey, get to know them better, as we don't always have to have a man to complete us or define who we are, we can't expect to get our self confidence from any man. go for it, call them, and be truthful to them. my 30 year old son called a few weeks ago, needing to come home, i immediately sent him a plane ticket, he is home now getting his life together. good luck

Answer 8

Well, after my divorce I went back to my parents for a short period. it wasn't too bad but the rope wears thin after a short while. that really sucks that your first 2 marriages didnt work for you but if your first hubby was such a loser then why did you marry him to begin with?

Answer 9

Its always hard to mend things long broken, however parent in general tend to be forgiving,hopefully they welcome you and their granddaughter with open arms. As hard as it is for you to make the first move, remember that it will be difficult and maybe awkward for your folks to....take it slow and good luck!!

Answer 10

talk to your parents, maybe they will just help out, so you can get by. it's not a wise idea to move back in with them.