So overall I'm a pretty normal right? I used to get mood swings but my life went downhill this summer. I looked at porn pretended to b someone else and got in a romance with ex-con. Now I get depressed and no one will take me for real. I might commit this summer how should i do it. OI would prefer a less painful way. something sudden.
everyone on here that is not a basheris nice which is why i asked
2007-01-04 09:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was in the same place you're in a few years ago. Just remember we all mistakes, and do things we regret, but the main thing is to learn from that and improve. I think you'd be hard pressed to find a person who hasn't looked at porn, and it's really not a big deal. I swear. As far as pretending to be someone else, that too is something most people do. As humans we go though phases, it's totally natural. Take the time to find who you truly are. Don't worry about what other people think, or say, do it for yourself. Most importantly don't do anything to hurt yourself. I speak from experince when I say it gets so much better, don't cheat yourself out of discovering that. You'll be ok, just keep your chin up.
2007-01-04 09:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by James S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's call you Ruth. You got all hot over some images and decided to play yourself as Sally on the sly. Then you hook up with some guy that has a lot of bad baggage. People are giving you the brush off for being Sally, and its sad.
So, go back to being Ruth. Or, you could reinvent yourself as Mary, or Martha, or Madge. The trick to being accepted as real is being real. A reputation is not earned in a moment (excluding heroic moments, which isn't your case).
I told someone recently who was suffering with terrible mood swings and was in an awful down one at the moment--first, find a counsellor, a real one, not just a friend, the kind with the degrees framed on the wall, and yes they will cost you; in the meanwhile, when you are despondant, ask yourself, "Where am I supposed to be right now?" So if you find yourself standing on the edge of a tall building or bridge or on a sidewalk thinking about stepping in front of that truck, ask yourself where you are supposed to be, then immediately go there. If it is home, go there. If it is school, go there (and yes, they have counsellors to talk to). Be with people you love, even if they are more than a little ticked off right now. In time, whether they say it or not, the normal Ruth will again be accepted, if the normal Ruth normally keeps showing up again. It takes time. (and we all do stupid stuff from time to time).
2007-01-04 17:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really sure i understand your question..
but if i combine the words "commit" with "life and death" and try to read inbetween the lines.. it sounds like you are depressed about things.. and if you are thinking about killing yourself, please don't!
you are 18 and have your entire life ahead of you. we all make mistakes in life and we all do silly things now and then.
and if your relationship with this ex-con was a bad experience, just be glad you got out of the relationship.
i get depressed a lot too, but giving up hope isn't the answer.. send me an e-mail if you like.. tell me more about yourself.. and i will write you back. let's become friends and we can help each other by sharing our thoughts and feelings..
2007-01-04 18:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be stupid, hes not worth it and youll find someone else in a week or so, so dont sweat it. I mean really, theres lots of guys and girls out there. And too much fun crap to do to. Go out with friends and party man! Or go have a one night stand. Either way yourll feel better. One sure way to rid the blues is to take a trip to a fun place like, New Orleans, lots of fun people to meet and lots to do there! Go youll love it.
2007-01-05 03:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say stuff like that when there are alot of people who want to live all around the world. I know it's not easy to live, in fact, I feel depressed and sad almost all the time. But thats not life is all about ok. If you need to talk to me, I'll listen to you. but I can't send you my ID, cuz it says you're not allowed to IM.
2007-01-05 03:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might commit what??? You don't want to commit anything. You want a way out of the maddness. Try finding out what you like about yourself and go from there. You don't have a whole heckofalotoftime.
2007-01-04 17:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try psychotherapy before you commit to doing something drastic.
2007-01-04 18:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! I haven't the slightest clue as to what you mean sweet hart -Elaborate or something
2007-01-04 17:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Art 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋