My current GF's Exs' had cheated on her so many times.. hell her last one gave her an STD and is currently wit the gurl that he's been together wit for 7years(gurl he cheated on my girl wit). Ok now me and her been going through some serious problems cos i made the mistake of snooping on her and going through her stuff, but i have never cheated on her nor thought about it. Although she still talk to her last EX, I still feel i'm could win back her heart more than the other guyz who had cheated on her.
What you think???
2007-01-04 09:37:16 · 12 answers · asked by PeaceMaker!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
About her Ex that gave her the STD, he goes off and on wit his current GF. And the gurl said she knew he was cheating but she's still going be with him!!!
2007-01-04 09:38:54 · update #1
I know what this girl has been through and i wanna be there for her till she become a better person!!!
2007-01-04 09:52:42 · update #2
A "better person" is defined by alot more than just "not cheating". Any successful relationship is based on a foundation of trust. Did you uphold that trust when you went through her stuff and snooped? I don't think the issue is competing against other guys in her life. At this point, it sounds like you are competing against yourself.
2007-01-04 09:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, you could experience good. with the aid of fact it somewhat is something right for you. If somebody does something this is undesirable for you, and that they finally end up having to give up that with the aid of fact of something else stupid they did, i think of you could experience satisfied. If it grew to become into me, i could in all probability rip on them some for failing, yet you seem superb. so which you in all probability won't. and for the individuals asserting which you mustn't with the aid of fact it ought to happen to you, i do no longer think of feeling satisfied will reason you to be screwed over. possibly, like, getting all your friends to snort at this female, yet i'm distinctly confident feeling satisfied does not set off karma.
2016-11-26 19:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a problem trusting her, or you wouldn't be snooping. I agree, snooping is better than cheating. That being said, if once I was in a bad relationship and my new man, especially if I expected more f/ him, snooped and didn't trust me, I would have a problem trusting him again either, c/ it would crush me.
2007-01-04 09:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "snooping", you made it clear through your actions that you don't TRUST her.
That's pretty harsh to face for a woman, especially if she never gave REASON not to trust her.
It might be too late, unless you can vow to never ever violate her privacy again, and get her to believe you, then stick to it!
Sorry, it isn't something I'D forgive...but good luck.
2007-01-04 09:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get a clean girl that dosnt get std from everyone.
2007-01-04 09:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, your girlfriend is damaged material, she got an STD and she is into drama, forget about winning her over, just move on and live a happy life
2007-01-04 09:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not right in the head to go back with that guy...even just talking. Cut your losses.
2007-01-04 09:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I am having a hard time following what you are saying.
2007-01-04 09:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should understand that she wants him right now, even if he is a pig you cant make her see that she will do that when shes ready.
2007-01-04 09:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. if that is what you think about yourself, then she should stick wtih you for ever.
2007-01-04 09:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋