2007-01-04 09:33:25 · 23 answers · asked by kayla_lopez_2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah. and it can suck just as bad or worse since he's supposed to care. i feel for ya hun, i divorced my ex for that exact sh*t.
2007-01-04 09:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is rape, no matter if the person is your husband or a stranger. If you didn't consent to having sex, it is rape. Look it up on the net, there are lots of spousal rape groups that can help you. Remember that it is not your fault no matter what. Get help even if you don't leave your husband. No one has to know if you reach out for help, but do reach out to professionals who can help you. No one has the right to violate you, NO ONE.
2007-01-04 17:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by redbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is rape and no matter what he thinks, I would really leave someone who done that to me, you deserve better than to be mistreated, sex should be something shared and thought of as a blessing to share with your husband if he has to force you then he isn't much of a man. I would not allow my self to feel any thing but disgust.
2007-01-04 17:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's still rape--it may even be worse, as it's sodomization.
It's more difficult to prove rape in court if the couple is married, but there are precedents. It isn't a wife's "duty" to allow her husband to treat her however he'd like.
2007-01-04 17:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says that anally forcing yourself on a woman isn't rape? It doesn't matter which hole you enter, the answer was no!
2007-01-04 21:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, rape is rape, although you should be carefull about how you throw that term around, especially when used to describe your spouse.
i know the common statements, you don't have to give in to his sexual apetite or abide by his rules or whatever the case may be
then again, he does not have to abide by your rules or help you in any way and blah blah blah
all in all it starts the breakdown of any decent relationship that has taken time to build up
i dated a girl who i was intimate with, and one time she did throw it in my face, we were discussing something, just a basic scenario, not even an argument, but it led to this subject. i wound up dumping her and not looking back, she asked for an explanation and this is what i told her
we should be partners, allies in life, but when you take something like that and wield it as a weapon against then you are nothing more than a common enemy, and if you are the enemy then we should not be interacting as we do
be carefull how you weild your weapons in life, they may destroy more than what you bargained for, and once the damage is done then its that much harder to rebuild
2007-01-04 18:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is rape anyway. Even more brutal. If the woman is forced, is rape.
rape (1)
rape [ rayp ]
noun (plural rapes)
Definition:
1. forcing of somebody into sex: the crime of using force somebody to have sexual intercourse with somebody
2. instance of rape: an instance of the crime of rape
3. violent destructive treatment: the violent, destructive, or abusive treatment of something
the rape of a beautiful stretch of countryside
4. abduction: an act of seizing somebody and carrying him or her away by force ( archaic )
transitive verb (past and past participle raped, present participle rap·ing, 3rd person present singular rapes)
Definition:
1. force somebody to have sex: to force somebody to have sexual intercourse
2. violate something: to treat something in a violent, destructive, or abusive way
rape the land for its resources
[14th century. Via Anglo-Norman < Latin rapere "seize"]
Word History
The Latin word rapere "to seize," from which rape is derived, is also the source ofEnglishrapacious,rapid,rapine,rapture,ravage,raven1,ravine,ravish,surreptitious, andusurp.
2007-01-04 17:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Cister 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its still rape. But if he would have forced it in your mouth, I think that is not rape. I of course, am kidding!!!!!!! That would be the most idiotic thing a rapist could do, you could just bite it off then.
2007-01-05 06:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he forced himself on you after you repeatedly told him no, then it is considered rape. It does not matter if you are married or if it is anal sex. If it is reported after it happened, doctors can sometimes detect forced "entry". But he can not get in trouble if you did not verbally tell him to stop.
2007-01-04 17:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by pumpkinpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is rape no matter where it happens. Yes, it would still be considered rape.
2007-01-04 18:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is Rape is Rape and Rape is WRONG no matter what or who or how it is preformed.
Why is this a difficult concept?
2007-01-04 17:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋