im 22/m/married and in EMT class with a 21/f/married with a kid just one town over....we flirt a lot and have a lot of sexual tension. we talk on the phone durring the day and today she seemed bummed. i asked and she said her and her husband have been separated for a few months and living together....and im the only one shes told and doesnt want me telling anyone shoul i avoid this situation? does she want me
2007-01-04 09:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever she means, you need to ask yourself what YOU mean. You say you're married, but you don't say anything about your wife. You need to think about her. You need to think about your own marriage: this other woman's situation is her problem, not yours. If you are going to be fair to your wife, and to yourself, and to this other woman, you really must sit down and think about your feelings. How might your current behaviour affect you and your wife? Do you love your wife? Have you got children? Sort out your own situation before you enter into another: you could hurt a lot of people if you don't.
2007-01-04 09:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by pretty face 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldnt have to ask this question, but since you do have to ask, YES, STAY AWAY FROM IT. STOP FLIRTING AND GOOFING. So what, you all have the hots for each other. We all find others from time to time that make us boil or get a bit hot. So what? You let them pass and you think, see, I made it through and was faithful. You know your are playing with fire and you know you are wrong. You dont need to ask everyone else, you already know the answer.
2007-01-04 09:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should avoid this messy situation at least until she's divorced. She may be on the rebound and things will become clearer in time.
2007-01-04 09:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 03:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're not going to be with her until her husband is completely out of the picture, otherwise things will inevitably get ugly.
2007-01-04 09:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid it like wild fire!!!! Most women in school who are married with children are there to get out of their marriages. Can you say rebound?
2007-01-04 09:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen. you can be there as a friend, if she wants, but it sounds like the fact you mentioned sexual tension, that it wouldn't just be friends, on either end.
2007-01-04 09:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, you need to leave her the f*** alone! Be a good husband to your wife!
2007-01-04 10:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by xquis81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Complete one relationship, before starting another.
2007-01-04 09:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she wants me but I would stay away. Trouble.....
Check back with her in 6 months. If she divorces go for it.
2007-01-04 09:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋