2007-01-04 09:30:40 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A person can still have thoughts of love for a former lover, spouse blah, blah, blah. That's why its extremely important to bond with the person you are with and commit honestly to them.
The feelings of love do remain after a relationship ends. New relationships normally eliminate (overtime) thoughts of previous experiences. However the person still having those feeling MUST understand they are now committed to someone else and to refrain from placing themselves in situations that can get them into trouble.
I only wish my wife had the sense to understand that. It's a common sense thing as far as I'm concerned.
2007-01-04 10:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the split, but I think that if you married for love (and not for money or some other reason) that you will always harbor feelings for the other person. Though the fond feelings may be hard to see through the haze of dislike - sharing a life for even a short time bonds two people, and even moreso if a child results from the union.
2007-01-04 17:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by autonomous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe they all love their ex-wives. When you marry someone, that strong feeling can diminish but never vanish. I don't think all men are still in love with their ex-wives though. Being in love and loving someone is totally different, so yes, I think once you've been through so much together, it's never forgotten and feelings still exist.
2007-01-04 17:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on which one were talking about here. I have 3 ex's
the 1st and 3rd i still have feelings for, the 2nd one i really hate her guts.
But my current wife is simply the best woman i've ever met in my life.
2007-01-04 17:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say all men love their ex-wives. I believe mine does, b/c he has told me so. Just depends on the situation. Who left who, and why.
2007-01-04 17:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine don't, he can't even stand to be in the same room with her. Of couse she is a hard core alcoholic, and cheated on him all the time, so I can kind of understand why.
2007-01-04 17:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think they relize it until you have moved on, and they see you with someone else. And by then it is too late.
2007-01-04 17:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋