http://zgrazier.tripod.com/zach_grazier/ its my photo albumn..anywayz people r calling me gay and i m not what should i tell them...AM i hetro>>??
2007-01-04 09:22:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ok yes this is me me email is z_grazier@yahoo.com my myspace is www.myspace.com/z_grazier and yes that is my pic zgrazier.tripod.com is my poetry site so that is my photo albumn..
2007-01-04 09:25:53 · update #1
i dont wear makeup and that shirt is from hollister..
2007-01-04 09:27:00 · update #2
idk how to change my avatars eyes
2007-01-04 09:30:16 · update #3
Errm... No one can determine your sexual orientation based on your photo. If your are not gay, then why would you ask us if you're heterosexual? Shouldnt you know that to say firmly that you arent gay?
2007-01-04 09:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know how old you are or the social situation you find yourself in I'll just give you some general advice and you can take it where you will from there.
If people beleive you are gay and you are not simply correct them by saying something as simple as "I'm not gay." Obviously they have come to the conclusion based on their impression of you and unfortuately there isn't very much you can do to change that.
You seem fairly young (high school age) so you will find as you get older that people will not be as quick to label you.
If you are really apt at changing peoples perceptions you could involve yourself in activities that are not generally considered to be participated in by homosexuals, cut your hair short, not wear pink. But these will not stop people from coming to whatever conclusion they choose. And will probably end up making you unhappy as you obviously like your hair cut and your pink shirt, otherwise you wouldn't have them.
In the end you should try to not care what others call you (I know it's not as easy as it sounds). You know who you are and you seem to have friends who like and support you. Other peoples opinions are just that, opinions.
Be whoever you want to be and be damned with everyone elses perceptions.
Cheers.
2007-01-04 09:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might get blasted for this answer, but being gay is such a fad now days. Its more popular than being hetero. The hype is focused a lot on hetero sexual preditors, etc etc. So I wouldn't worry about being called gay. A catch all answer to an accusation is "YOU wish"!! Put the accusation back on them. It even will work for women who make the accusation. "YOU, Wish"! or "I bet you wish I was gay"!
For a women saying you are gay, You can always ask them if it would make them feel better if you were/ha ha
Good Luck
2007-01-04 09:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you focus on the wrong things. Of course your not gay, gay people dress better and know how to design websites.
Try asking quesitons about something else. I know, here's a question for you:
How can a person get rich if they only make minimum wage?
2007-01-04 09:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people would be stereotyping you. It means that they judge you by your looks. I looked at your pictures and I don't see how you look gay because really you can't tell that somone is by the way they look even though some people think you can but you are just strange. Don't listen to them and just inore them. They might just be jealous. If your straight then that's good and if people think otherwise then that's their prolbem. Just inore them and don't let them get to you.
2007-01-04 09:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people who are more then likely your age, are trying to get a reaction out of you. Ignore them, if they make this comment just say whatever and go about your business.
Ones they see you are not going to play there game they will get bored and move on to someone else. Just the way bullies are....
2007-01-04 09:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on not being GAY!
Read Romans 1:22-32 and help the homosexuals of this world see the TRUTH!
People CHOOSE TO BE GAY THEY ARE NOT BORN GAY!
2007-01-04 09:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I was at school, the tough, rough kids used to call any lad with a girlfriend gay. it's a funny old world. I wouldn't worry about it. Be what you want to be and don't worry what people say.
2007-01-04 09:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Chris S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a decent haircut, dump the shirt, and drink some schnapps. That should fix 'ya.
2007-01-04 09:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by AnswerSeeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them and go about your life like normal, its fine to be hetro sexual and still be homosexual friendly. It doesnt make you gay.
2007-01-04 09:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋