he said im nervous and started sweating and hes not a virgin
2007-01-04 09:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by So*CaL BAbE 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
His personal expectations were higher than his libido.
It happens, it has happened to me. She was willing and I thought I was, but it just wasn't happening. It could have been fatigue, illness coming on, or simply problems in the back of his mind keeping him preoccupied.
Frankly, I usually FAR more often have the other problem, "Get that thing away from me, the answer is NO!"--and I'm married to her. Even an accused sexual addict like me has had some "whimp out" moments.
2007-01-04 09:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy tell me he liked to smell me when he took his clothes off once he got home. Oh, and that we would have really attractive babies. We both did not want kids. By the by, not the first time a guy has said something like 'we would have good looking kids.'. the kids thing is during foreplay though, not sex. Does that count?
2016-05-23 03:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's got some sort of emotional issues. could be he's just not ready to get sexual with you yet. the few times i tried to have sex, i couldn't perform either.. .. deep down, i knew i wasn't ready for it.. but tried anyway.. but it just wasn't gonna happen.
not all guys are comfortable with sex.. especially if it's a new relationship. some guys need the emotions, love, and committment to be strong, so they will feel totally at ease, and comfortable with going all the way.
if you love this guy, then be patient with him and take baby steps.. start with hand jobs and work your way to oral sex.. and don't have intercoruse until he's ready and able to do the other things.
if you are only interested in sex, then i don't think this guy is right for you..
by the way, why did you post this question here in the gay/bi section?
2007-01-04 09:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be a virgin, or a religious type of guy who thinks he's commiting a sin.
it called Guilt.
Just curious was it wimps out or he whipped it out and then just didn't foolow through with the sex?
Meg
2007-01-04 09:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy you should definetly hang on to, he obviously doesnt see you as "easy" and if he isnt a virgin then he is obviously nervous because it is his first time with you. He definetly seems to like you a lot so give him time.
2007-01-04 09:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by kringle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like garden variety performance anxiety.
2007-01-04 09:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally, chances are he really was nervous.
If he was really nervous, it's because he likes you a lot.
2007-01-04 09:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by psychedelic_fighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a passive. Take out a paddle, beat his butt and shove a dildo in it and make him eat you out. Thatll teach him.
2007-01-04 19:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woh - you sure he isn't sexually repressed? Be a little sensitive to his needs and help him ease his nervousness.
2007-01-04 09:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Bunnytoes:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you post this in the lgbt section? Do you think he is gay/bi?
2007-01-04 10:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋