2007-01-04 09:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by psychedelic_fighter 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It depends. I like to think that there are two 'types' of bisexuals. There are those who I think are more like 'equal opportunity lovers'- they simply do not see gender. Men and women are equally liked, because the person feels attraction not based on one's genitals.
The other type is that who likes both sexes, but loves them for their differences. These are men and women who like each sex for a different reason; for example, a man who loves the soft femininity of women, and the rough masculinity of men. Or a woman who loves the tender emotional range of woman, and likes strong, silent men. It all depends.
For me, I like butch/masculine women or tomboys and men (feminine women don't really do anything for me). I do think it feels different for me when I like a man and when I like a woman, and I think the difference is me; I respond differently with the different sexes. Not that I change or purposely act differently, but for me, the dynamic shifts when it's a heterosexual relationship or lesbian one. That's not to say I love any less intensely or feel any different towards a gender, but I find that they are separate things, both beautiful in their own way.
Hope that helps!
2007-01-04 12:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I mean I think it would. I mean maybe you will have a stronger attraction to one sex than the other. I knwo that a freind of mine who is bi-sexual preffers to be with men more than girls, but he can never commit fully to a guy due to the fact he likes women as well. So I think it all depends on the person and that the mutal feeling of wanting to be with someone does not change.
2007-01-04 09:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by loveandbeyond9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not personally, but i know bisexual people, and they are some of my good friends, so i can tell you what it feels like.
it really depends on your own gender. it feels different, becuase guys and girls are different, as you should know. we have our differences.
so when you're attracted to a girl you're probably going to look at them because of their glamour, beauty, coolness, and "all-knowingness". and their personality of course.
when you're attracted to a guy, you're most likely attracted to their sense of humor, sweetness, and kindness. personality.
they might not be the exact reasons, but those are some common ones. one i'm not mentioning on purpose is "hotness". i think that's kind of obvious why.
basically, a simpler way to put it is girls and guys are different, so they are going to be attractive in their own ways, so it does and should feel different when you're attracted to them.
but when you love someone, it's love, and there's nothing to that.
love is love, and nothing less.
hope this helps.
2007-01-04 09:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. The physical cues are different, but the basic interest and emotional attachment are very much the same.
2007-01-04 09:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just depending on who you are attracted to. My girlfriend is bi, and she fancy's both, but she is with me, so I guess it defines that right there..
2007-01-04 09:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like both genders the same.
2007-01-04 10:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-04 11:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i fantisize both sexs but im str8 and i never ****with a man b/c i know why i have what i have and why god created me
and if i fantisize a man its becuase he remind s me of myself
2007-01-04 09:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes me anxious @ times. and even if i take a deep breath it comes back immidiatley or sooner.
2007-01-04 11:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i only like guys, i don't know what it's like to love a girl
2007-01-04 09:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tyler 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋