What do you think of this?

Question

Is it disrespectful for a husband to not come straight home from work ?

Answer 1

nope---typical hubby stops at the bar for a few with his buddys

Answer 2

Too many reasons will impeach a man to come home straight after work. It is disrespectful not to call to discuss the reason why and worse if he comes home very late and have an attitude and no question should be asked about his lateness.

Answer 3

No i do not think it is disrespectful. why because they might need to go to the shop to buy something or they may go to their friends house. If you think that if your husband dosen't come home right after workd and you think he is cheating on you you might be wrong or right. It depends. If he is cheating on you what I will say is that you should let him know that you are pretty and he should be more interested in you that the other girls. So you should show him what you got and your skills. Another choise what I will say is that if you think that he is cheating on you you should go to the MAURY SHOW and get him a lie detecter test. Then you can find out if he is cheating on you or not.

Answer 4

Well, that would depend upon several things. A bit too early to determine if it is him being disrespectful of you or not.

Did you two have plans that he knew of?
Is this usual for him?
Does he call and let you know?
Does he let you know where he will be and who he will be with?
Has he usually been one of those who comes straight home and now isnt?
Has he usually been one that will let you know that he is going to stop, etc?

If this was typical him, then it would be silly to expect it to change, at least in a short amount of time.

Also, are you one who does the above things in regards to him or not? If you dont, then you should not expect better.

Frankly, in the sake of safety, I always thought it wise to let my spouse know where I would be and so forth. I also expected the same things in return.

Answer 5

If you care for a person, you respect their feelings. Does the wife think it's disrespectful? If the spouses have a difference of opinion, they need to really talk to each other and find out why. You should be willing to do that, otherwise, why did you make a commitment to that person in the first place? Think it over, talk it over and come to a compromise, if possible. Otherwise, you're just trying to control each other and that's not healthy.

Answer 6

Does he require u to check in everywhere u go? Do u both tell eachother where u are at all times? If the answer is no, than if he has to run an errand it shouldn't be a big deal. If he's going out with friends, he should call in advance and let you know. It all depends on the situation and how often he does it.

Answer 7

I think the bloke should have called and let you know. Does he have a cell phone? Did you call him? Did he go to the store? I don't think it is disrespectful if he went to the store or something innocent but if he is running to the bars or even going to visit a firend wihtout telling you, yeah, I would say he should respect you by letting you know.

Answer 8

Yes if he doesn't communicate to his wife that he's not coming straight home. It's kind of common courtesy to let your mate know so they won't get worried when you don't show up on time. Especially if you have established a pattern of coming home at a certain time every evening.

Answer 9

It's a valid question/request and yes, it is disrespectful of him not to do so without an explanation. I'd follow up on this one if that's the case on a regular basis.

Answer 10

It depends. If he's going out drinking with the guys then of course it's disrespectful. If he's going to the gym or the grocery store then no.

Answer 11

Well if you mean 3 hours with no explanation....yes it is.

But I mean come on - I stop at the store and grab a drink. Or at the grocery store. Or whatever.

If he doesn't tell you he's not coming home for dinner and just takes off, that's not cool.