My friends hang out w/ popular girls and i kinda do now since, well, i'm not dumping my friends cuz they hang out w/ people who think they're better than everyone else!!!!
I just feel really a lot like i don't fit in withthe popular people and i know that i do, cuz i'm pretty and i have really good grades and a lot of friends, i'm announced a lot on morning announcements, so yeah, but i just don't feel like i'm enough for them. That's how they all feel i know and i have friends in the popular group but it doesn't feel right. Cuz it's not like they're mean to anyone or anything, they just make funof people...okay that's mean i guess...but really they THINK that they're better than everyone but that just lessens them as people. I don't think this is wear i fit but i do have actual friends who aren't mean and who hang with these people so i don't know. I try to pull away but it's too hard i struggle w/out the spotlight i guess. I crave 2 b popular but i don't want to be mean...Help?
2007-01-04 08:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you don't have to be mean to be popular...and they think that just because they look better than anyone else...well that doesn't give them the right to make fun of other people...and you don't have to be like them at all...just be yourself.....and if you don't feel comfortable around them then it's pretty simple.....don't hang out with them ...well yea...but not so much...try making new friends
good luck
2007-01-04 09:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then be popular, but don't be mean. I knew a few girls like that back in school, and they ended up being more popular then the bitchy girls. I don't really know what else to say. I never had this problem, because I never cared to be popular.
2007-01-04 17:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by his angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont liek them making fun of people then next time they do tell them to stop and that its immature. the Person being made fun of will respect you and the person making fun will feel embarrassed.
You will gain respect for defending someone who doesnt have the confidence to defend themselves, which will give them confidence.
You will also teach the popular person its not right to make fun and that not everyone thinks its funny. if they argue or try to make fun of you say "Yeah whatever youre immature, grow up."
And trust me hun, if youre with the popular people and see that they arnt good people, youre the coolest person in my book.
2007-01-04 17:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the lead and tell them to stop not in a mean way tho cuz you dont want to loose them but as soon as you take the lead they will want to hang out with you more and theyll start being nicer then youll fit in more but you have to take the lead.
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2007-01-04 17:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Popular doesn't exist
2007-01-04 17:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋