How do you tell if you are gay?

Answer 1

Being gay is emotional and physical attraction to the same sex.

If you fancy both sexes (even if you only fancy one sex a little bit) then you are bi.

It's your choice what you want to call yourself though.

There's no test though. Remember that. It can take a while to work out what your sexuality is, but in the end remember fancying people, having sex and (sometimes) falling in love is GREAT.

Whoever you fancy.

Answer 2

I mean its not exactly something that you can look at yourself and say well the way I talk and the way I walk must make me gay. Its more of what your choice is when it comes to men or women. I personaly think that if your gay yor born that way because their are children right now at the ages of 6 and 7 telling their parents well mom I want to dress like and be like a girl. So I think its not something you can tell but more of who you are.

Answer 3

You just know!
And if you don't then really what is happening is that you are not accepting your true sexual orientation in your own life!
I know because I did that for many years, pretended to be str8 because I didn't what to be gay, I didn't what to be different. But I was gay, of course I was, I has born gay, just the same as I was born with brown eyes, and curly hair! I didn't just one day say, "I think I will have brown eyes now", nor did I wake up on day and say, "I think I would like curly hair now"! No that is what I was born with and the same is with my sexual orientation, I didn't just wake up one day and say to myself, "I think I am going to be gay now"!!! No, no, no, I was born that way, I was born gay!
Hope this is helpful.
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JAC<
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Answer 4

If you're a dude and when you're looking at the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue and you think the model in the two piece on the cover looks fabulous but you find yourself staring at the photo of football player with the ripped abs buried inside makes your pelvis tingle, your gay.

Answer 5

If, for many years, you are consistently attracted to members of your sex.

Many teenagers will be curious, or as a natural part of their development, want to see their classmates/agemates naked, possibly even do sexual things with them. Weird, but nothing to be worried about.

Answer 6

if you constantly are staring at others in the locker room
imagining doing things sexual with same sex
and are interested in doing sexual things with the same sex
and are uninterested in the opposite sex

Answer 7

If you like Judy, Barbara and Cher, you are gay. :)

Answer 8

When you ask questions like this