i love him because hes my provider i'm the home maker the stronger caring woman in the shadows seing him shime my reward is his happiness how do you feel xx
2007-01-04 08:43:09 · 25 answers · asked by noot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry seeing him shine
2007-01-04 08:45:53 · update #1
i mean how do you feel about yours!!!
2007-01-04 08:48:19 · update #2
I Love my husband too. I work and help provide equally though. He is my best friend, before him I always felt I was searching for something. Now I feel I've not only found it but I'm whole. This question actually made me realize how much I've been taking us for granted lately. Thanks!
2007-01-04 08:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by annette_642 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe marriage is not for you right now. The other thing is that too many ppl think that it's ok to live with someone before they get married. Nevermind the lack of morality in a decision like that, but just look at the divorce rates of couples who shack up before marriage. See marriage is not supposed to be all fun and excitment. There will always be bumps in the road, especially when kids come around. Could it be that you may not have found out what you expect out of marriage yet? You should take some time off NOW before you have children with this person and drag your family through a potentially disaterous situation. Read this, taken from the website below. "A new life project We each have something that we want to do with our lives: something we want to become. It may take us a while to find out what that "something" is, but eventually a life project forms, either consciously or unconsciously. And it seems to me that as people pursue this goal, whatever it may be—to be a skilled surgeon, to be the best kindergarten teacher that ever lived, to own a farm or whatever else they may see their life to be about—they sometimes encounter another human being to whom they are so attracted that the love of this other person supersedes all other life goals and ambitions. They undertake a new life project. Little by little they decide that first on their agenda is now going to be the life, the happiness, the holiness of this other person. The good of this other takes precedence even over the desires and dreams they have for themselves. And when that other makes the same decision, together the two embark on a whole new adventure. It seems to me that this is the basic meaning of the Sacrament of Marriage. "
2016-05-23 03:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like you make me nervous. He's your provider? What are you a child? How bout getting a job and stop living in his shadows....be your own woman not the woman behind a man! By the way, yes I am married and both my husband and I work. I don't need to work because he makes a great income. I work because I refuse to feel indebted to anyone. No one provides for me except me.
2007-01-04 08:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband. He is my best friend and companion. My soulmate. We've been through the best of the best and the worst of the worst and have held each others hands through it all. He is my playmate and my protector. I have had more happiness in the time I have been with my husband than in the rest of my life combined. I love going to sleep next to him and waking up in his arms. His smile makes my world complete. He is not a perfect person, but he is the perfect husband for me. I know I have it good, and I will never take that for granted.
2007-01-04 08:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband, and not only love him but I also respect him as a human being. I'm a SAHM(stay-at-home-mom) and I help my husband by being able to control our costs at home. I know we only have one salary coming in so I try to stay on top of things. My husband and I have been married for 16yrs now. I truly love him he's one of my best friend.
2007-01-04 08:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by firmiedylan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say at this time...My husband is my high school sweetheart and we have been through a lot this past year. I have been through Hell and back with him and I'm getting tired and worn out by the lies, cheating and deception.
At one time, (a long, long time ago) I was in love... guess the love is "wearing" thin.
2007-01-04 09:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by lazykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about your Husband...OOPS, I mean my Husband...
It's awesome to be able to feel the way you do, I appreciate and love my Husband very much. I didn't always feel this way...took many years to come to my senses...but we've been married almost 17 years now! Who says the honeymoon has to end??
2007-01-04 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by weebleswobble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont love you husband, but I do love my own.....lol It is wonderful to know that there is a person who finds joy in the happiness of others.
2007-01-04 08:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by yourplaceofrest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got married two weeks ago and I love my husband more and more everyday! I did not think that marrying him would change my feelings for him ,but it has. He is my best friend, my lover ,and my world!
2007-01-04 14:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like I would if I was already married. I intend to love my husband with all of my heart, and will do what I need to do so he never thinks about going astray. Love him, and he will love you back.
2007-01-04 13:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋