I wanna take it to the next step.He's a gr8 guy.Except when it comes to intimacy.He scared to talk bout it in front of me.Although i do know he wants it.Let's just i cud pick up some explicit hints from his body.And oh yea we have common friends so i checked with them and now im sure he's str8.So wot shud i do wait a while or seduce him?...coz he's 19 and im 18.lol he shud have made the first move by now.
2007-01-04 08:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, just don't frighten him - take it really slowly. Guys have inhibitions too, you know!
2007-01-04 09:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something sexy, have an evening in - set the scene - lower the lights - a light meal together with a few drinks and watch a sexy film or put on some sexy music. Do everything real slow. Don't talk too much. Have a smoochy dance. Look into his eyes while you think about what you want to do with him. He will read your mind and soon lose control.
2007-01-04 17:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Steve M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked for answers from girls but I have to stand up for your B/F as a man.
You have your explicit hints that he is capable and interested.
You've checked out if he is straight (why?)
What's the rush, maybe he likes you enough to wat to make love rather than just have sex and the time and place haven't been right yet.
Relax, enjoy getting to now him, when the time is right the wait will be worth it.
2007-01-04 18:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by streetblitzer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know its hard but just ask him if he wants to... if he doesn't answer and he's that shy maybe he isn't ready to take it to the next level just yet!
i'd been with my first boyfriend 3 months before we had sex. just go with the flow... also if you get him really really horny he won't be able to resist! oh and don't plan it, not good!
just let the moment take you when it feels right! (make sure you use condoms too!) SERIOUSLY PLAY SAFE OR NOT AT ALL!!!!!!
good luck hun!!
2007-01-04 17:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jemma G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful that you have a gentleman for a boyfriend who is NOT just after sex,
When it is right, it will happen.
Don't fret...and don't push it.
2007-01-08 15:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the reins hun.
2007-01-04 16:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋