I honestly feel like I choose to be straight since about 4 or 5 kindergarten or so. I liked girls not boys ever since I've been a big big fan. It's like I choose not to be gay, but to be straight long b4 I knew the meaning behind the terms in my eyes.
Where as gay people say they didn't choose to be Gay it just happened.
I don't understand why we are so different on this topic, we're all human made from the same stuff does our orientation dictate whether we choose or not?
That in its self sounds wierd?
2007-01-04 08:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not bashing so no need to get defensive I'm just talking.
2007-01-04 08:35:05 · update #1
no matter what u say, i didn't choose 2 like other boys. i didn't wake up one day and consciously make a decision between boys and girls and decided 2 like boys instead of girls. liking men has always been natural to me ever since i can remember. i remember having a crush on my brother's friend travis when i was about 7 or 8yo. there's never been a point in my life when i liked girls.
2007-01-04 08:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tyler 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
According to the APA, human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.
Speaking for myself, when I was 4 or 5 I wasn't sexual at all. Same as today, I like everybody but liking someone and finding them attractive is vastly different that entering a mature sexual relationship with a person. The only choice I ever had to make was which guy wanting to take me to bed would I go with. My inner spirit wanted all of them but my common sense and my rational thought left alot of broken hearts along the way.
2007-01-04 08:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you receive busted, yet now you're mad at your pal because you tried to be a participant? in case you've been talking to the different female per week....maaaaybe i might want to scale lower back you some slack, yet 3 months?! you receive what you deserved, yet you nevertheless do not favor to take duty. you imagine your pal wasn't unswerving? Does friendship recommend he has to change right into a liar for you? Screw that. the on the spot you requested him to keep this lie, you disrespected your friendship. the way i look at it, you 2 are even. You disrespected the freindship, so he did it good lower back. in case you may't cope with that and placed it behind you, it truly is time to make new friends.
2016-12-01 20:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by laranjeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 4 or 5 you had not a clue of what being gay or straight means.
Next question.
2007-01-04 09:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by kevin 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You didn't "decide" to be straight, especially not at the age of 4 or 5. If you're straight now it's because you were wired that way.
2007-01-04 08:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Laying aside any religious beliefs, etc., it appears to me that common sense says that it doesn't line up with the physical anatomy of male and female bodies. It just doesn't make sense. It's just plain incomprehensible.
2007-01-04 08:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by rugbee 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You choose to be straight huh?
Don't forget to flush the toilet now.
2007-01-04 08:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kedar 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
we are all gay some of choose to be traoght but originally we're gay.
2007-01-04 08:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just be yourself we are born girl and boy
2007-01-04 08:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ensdnd!!
2007-01-04 08:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋