Does it maen a person is gay if they have a fantasy to have sex with the same gender? She never did it before. But in back of her mind she always wanted to. And now she might have the chance to.But she really likes men and has a boyfriend. And he wants her to. Of course he wants to see it, but only have sex with his girlfriend.What can this be.
2007-01-04 07:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am a lesbian myself, and I use to do the same things... dream about it, think about, etc. You are probably curious, so go for it, and don't let your boyfriend watch, that ruins all of the romance to it. I would try it with her, just for kicks, see if you like it, if you do, (any parts) you are bi, and there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-04 07:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a girl and really like men you cannot be gay. Since you say that this is a fantasy, I do not know if you are just curious or truly sexually attracted to other women. If you are attracted to women as well as men then you would be bisexual, and if you are only attracted to men you are straight. You could also be somewhere between the two; mostly straight with some bisexual leanings.
2007-01-04 15:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than thoughts to be 100% sure whether or not you are gay.
Do you fantasize about having sex with both genders or just with women, or just with men? This would determine which category applies to you. But you will never be sure until you act on these thoughts.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 15:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
fantacy and reality are two different things.. but if you enjoy the fantacies and genuinly think you are interested in women, then you might be bi.
if you have a boyfriend, yet want to try things with a girl, you might wanna break up with him first, since it's not nice to cheat.
if you genuinly love your boyfriend, but still feel that you need to be with a girl as well, then that can really make things confusing.
but yah, sounds like bisexuality..
2007-01-04 19:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could b bi. a lot of girls r bi nowdays cuz it's the kewl thing 2 do. i think it's kind of insulting 2 tell u the truth. 2 b gay, u have 2 have the emotional connection with the same sex as well.
2007-01-04 16:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality-I think women can be much more sensual than men and even research indicates that even straight women can have a bisexual experience and not really be affected by it. I would personally not like my partner to have sex with anyone else except me, but that's just my opinion
2007-01-04 15:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Art 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she is just curious sex with the same gender to me.
2007-01-04 15:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by eboue1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gay in the closet is my guess
2007-01-04 15:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lurker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, she is gay!
2007-01-05 02:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by noble_rubbish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Your" and "you're" are NOT interchangeable.....they are different words.
2007-01-04 20:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋