see am scared to tell them because i think they will kick me out the house and i bf told me to go life with him but it isnt the same. i know he is the father to my baby but he is a gangsta and he berly turned 18. and latly we have been having problems. i know some of you people reading it maybe say "you should of never opened your legs" or some thing like that but am a human and people make mistakes..
2007-01-04 06:59:47 · 9 answers · asked by bitch don't hate 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and am also scred to tell them because my bf turned 18 and i think they are going to send him to jail and i dont want that
2007-01-04 07:27:39 · update #1
You should be open and honest with your family. You should always communicate. I am sure your family will be upset, but they are family. Family is all you have when it comes down to it. Yes, you made a mistake and they will help you through it. Talk it over with them. Tell them how you feel about all of it and ask for their help. Tell them you don't want to live with your boyfriend even though he had offered.
A good family always communicates and is honest with one another. Yes, we all make mistakes and as a family we all help one another through those bad times. It will be hard for you, but you have to be honest. Sit them down and just tell them you made a mistake and you are now pregnant and you need them more now than you ever did. Ask them not to judge you or yell at you just to help you through this time. Tell them what you need for you. You aren't old enough to have a job and support the baby. Is your family willing to support the baby? Do you want to keep the baby? Those are things you will have to talk about. I am sure you will need to finish school. You have a lot of hard times ahead of you, but you can do it. They will not be the same. As long as you have a supportive family, you will be fine. Hugs to you and I wish you the best. Make sure you get to a doctor and get the care you need.
Well, that is something you can't really control right now. Legally, That is actually rape when you are under 18 and he is. You have to understand that you have to think of you and the baby right now. You can talk to your parents about how you feel, but I am sure that isn't going to matter much. I would honestly be upset too if I were either of your parents. Concentrate on how you are going to live your life and care for that baby. Once things calm down after you have told, then go from there.
2007-01-04 07:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You might want to tell them your Pregnant not Pregnate. And maybe pay attention in school cause your going to need a job to support this baby, especially if daddy is a gangsta as you say, cause daddy will most likely spend some part of your child's life in prison. You should be able to spell pregnant before you even consider having intercourse if you can spell neither keep your pants on and your legs closed because you need to grow up more.
But since you are pregnant give the baby up for adoption it is the kindest thing you can do, your not ready to raise a child and the child should not have to die or suffer neglect and abuse because your an idiot.
2007-01-04 07:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tonyal P 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell them now. Don't wait. I was about to turn 17 when I found out I was pregnant. I didn't tell. My plans were to hide it as long as I could, and after that, run away and get married. 2 weeks after I found out, I had to go to the ER for severe nausea. The whole time the nurse was putting the needle in my vein to give me the blood test, I was denying that I was pregnant. The doctor HAD to tell my mother. I actually lived with my grandparents, and you can't imagine how disappointed they were in me. They cried for weeks. BUT....it all got better, and now they are so thankful that I did have my son. He spends tons of time with them and has brought so much joy to them in their old age. Even if your family doesn't react the way mine did, it will only be worse the longer you wait.
An even better plan would be to have already made plans....what you're going to do with your future now, how you will support the baby, and have it all thought out to tell them at the same time you tell them you're pregnant. It will make you seem more mature and "on top of things" and they'll respect you for having thought ahead and realizing how much of an impact this baby is going to have on your life.
2007-01-04 07:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by married_so_leave_me_alone1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes writing a letter is easier, if they do kick you out, there are resources to help you and your baby. The catholic church has tons of resources for pregnant teens, even if you aren't catholic, and there are places you and your baby can live so you can finish school. I wouldn't move in with your boyfriend, I'd focus on you and your baby. Start taking your prenatal vitamins, and eat well, lots of fruits and veggies. Talk to a school counselor, or a teacher you trust. You need all the love and support you can get through this difficult time. Be strong.
2007-01-04 07:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly Tonyal P Your answer is nasty. This young girl is looking guidance on a Internet answer page, because she feels she can't talk to her family about it. Where you so perfect at 15 and never did or spelled anything wrong. Answers like yours so piss me off.HELP this girl needs, it won't go away .Please can you go to a teacher in school or some family member you can trust sit down and tell your family. I know that will be hard for you to do. Look in yellow pages for you nearest L.I.F.E. who will support you thorough telling your family , helping you in your future pregnancy and support when the babies born.Please see someone soon your better off telling cause its something you cant hide for long if you tell your family now it will give them time to get used to whats happening and time for you to look to the future. YES there are good MUMS out there 15 years old and you could be one of them too. Good luck wee love you are in my prayers.
2007-01-04 08:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by kiarakitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 15:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them write a note and then go somewhere like a family members place
my friend might be preg. shes 14 turning 15 soon and thats what shes doing tell her mom in a note and sneaking out to her grandmas
good luck with the baby
2007-01-04 07:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First spell It Pregnant and tell them slow
2007-01-04 08:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by nicnoo23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant even spell pregnant, I think that's a pretty good sign that you shouldn't be!
2007-01-06 21:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋