if a husband admits to an affair, will he leave his wife for her if he says he's in love with her.
2007-01-04 06:58:13 · 20 answers · asked by april11520 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not necessarily. I bet if men could get away with it, they'd just stay with their wife and keep banging their ho. I say 'ho' because any woman who would have an affair with a married man is a ho.
2007-01-04 07:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing I can guarantee is that he will have another affair sooner or later. Affairs breed affairs. That is how it is. You can have all the counselling you want. it makes little difference. Brace yourself. As for love, the answer is YES he can still love you and a lot. However, whether he loves you or not is neither here nor there. The point is he had an affair and during that time he did not love you. Love is what you decide to give someone. All humans love consciously. Its ot like you suddenly find you love this person and you cannot help it. No we decide to love or suspend love when it suits us. Think about it, most sane humans only claim to love available humans. Once someone is married, you do not bother with him/her you target other single people unless you detest the spouse of the married person in which case, you try to show you are better by luring their spouse away. If love was random and incidental, we would be prone to loving anyone married or not and it would cause a lot of problems. You husband merely suspended his love for you during the excitement with the other woman. S yes he can decide easily to come back and resume love with you. Nothing complex there.
2016-03-29 07:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some husbands do. My did. But he will never admit to me he loves her. He told me he did it for the sex and the party she puts out. And that he really loves me. I forgave him. Once,twice so many times I lost court. He did it again and this time I didn't. That's what happens when your spouse keeps cheating the other spouse finally had enough. Now if the wife stays after her husband says he in love with the women he had in affair with. That wife knows there's not much she can do after that. But to deal with her own hurt..And these men who leave there wife's 9 times out 10 they what to come back home. They thought the grass was greener on the other side in they found out different when they got there.And when a women goes though that she needs to start loving herself and start feeding her mind with good things. She needs to read some of Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger books.
2007-01-04 07:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unlikely that a married man will leave his wife, and cozy home and his children (if there are any children) for his mistress. It's happened before but not very often. If you are the mistress, l would suggest to you to let him go before you get too attached, because then it will be even harder to let him go. That guy is a looser for cheating on his wife, and to be honest with you, it's not cool for a woman, when she is plainly aware that the man is married, to keep having an affair with him. She should kick his sorry a s s out.
2007-01-04 07:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not always men like to have their cake and think they can eat it too. He will stay with wife if he thinks she will forgive all evils. If wife is happy to forgive then fine, but be sure he may do it again if he thinks he will get away with it, but this doubt often eats away at relationships. Men lust for what they are not supposed to have, its their nature. They think they love it because they're not supposed to, if that makes any sense?
I'm not sure i'd trust my man if he told me he'd had an affair but not everyone is as mistrusting as me lol. My ex husband left me for someone else, who then dumped him because he had left me and she knew he would do the same to her eventually! lol
Men want to have cake and eat it, he will stay if he can get away with it. Dont let him!
2007-01-08 05:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends was he seperated from his wife at the time?
Is he still living with his wife?
Are children involved?
More then likely hood he will not divorce his wife especially if he depends on her and children are involved and they decided to work through it.
could be he only saying that to you because he wants some booty from ya.
who really can say what a next man is thinking so many senarios to chose from i could go on but i won't
lets just stick most common answer is NO!
2007-01-04 07:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man tells a women that he is in love with another women its best to say then have her. Why would anyone want a man that does not want to be there its best to get it finished so you can go on with your life. Tell him good luck and do not let the door hit you in the *** on your way out!
2007-01-04 07:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long has the affair been goingg on for?.... if hes had an affair and its lasted over a month and hes not left you for her hes not goin to........ but if hes been thinking about witch one of you he wants he obviously don't love you as much as you deserve to be loved... take the choice out of his ands and leave him
2007-01-04 07:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always infact not very often men are creatures of habit and im sure nine times out of ten they dont want to give up their lifestyle with the wife its easier most times and why bother if he is having his cake and eating it love does not come into it beware when it comes to the crunch the wife is who he usually stays with
2007-01-04 07:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long is 'so long'
If after one day he does not make the decision, you should make it for him
It would be easier to forgive the affair if it was casual. if he has to ponder the decision it was obviously much more serious, You deserve better.
2007-01-04 07:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋