Why did he come back and why did I do this?

Question

Am a guy and my live-in bf of 3 years recently broke off with me. I supported him financially and took care of his every need. This was his first relationship with a guy and my second. We both had gfs before we got into it and had to break off with them to sustain this one. He dumped me couple of months back for a girl saying he had to break off, coz he had no future with me. I got to know later that he had been cheating on me for almost 6 months with her, while slowly pushing me away from him, just desperate to get out of the relationship and my home. And he left leaving me heartbroken and lonely. I was just about picking the pieces when he returned to my doorstep couple of days ago and wanted to sleep over/spend time. We talked and we did everything like the old times except sex. He cried a lot , holding me but didnt say why. I bought him a new years gift the next day. He sent me a msg thanking me 4 the good time. I love him even today but am confused. Can someone tell me what to do?

Answer 1

He sounds VERY confused about his sexuality first off. If he loved you the way you loved him, this would never be an issue. He left you for a girl. Both of you previous to your relationship, had girlfriends as well and chose to date men instead. Most people who are in their first homosexual relationship are more curious than anything else. Remember Anne Hesch and Ellen Degeneres? Anne was no more gay than fly. She was curious. The whole thing left Ellen broken and in despair. He came back and cried on your shoulder possibly because he 1. feels he made a mistake, or 2. told his girlfriend he used to be in a relationship with a man. You need to step up and tell him your no yo-yo....he stepped on your heart badly don't forget that. I am going to say move on from this point, so your heart can heal. He is toying with your emotions it sounds like. Good luck..hope you feel better!

Answer 2

I don't trust him! im sorry but i have to say this:
your bf is a b**ch!