I like to live a peaceful life with out any dram.My bf is a capricorn and we argue alot. He keeps telling me that I always want to have the last word. Its not 100% true. He is less expressive emotionally which gets on my nervous.When I Ignore him he gets mad and is always around me. When I take time out for him something comes up at work. Its been almost 2 years and we broke up with each other at least 3 times. I love him alot. Now he asked me to marry him but i can see my life with this man and it is not going to be easy. He makes me so happy at times and sad sometimes. I cant seem to wake away from him . What the hell should do?
2007-01-04 06:38:38 · 8 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
wow this is crazy.
If you dont want to marry him dont, if you have doubts you need to work them out.. Dont marry someone in pity. and certainly dont think that "love" will make it work.
"But if you say yes then tell him that there needs to be change in the way you act towards each other. " comments like this are not phrased correctly and to me is whats wrong with society in a vague way... I dont know, i guess i could be called a jerk or something, but whatever, I VALUE Marriage... work stuff out then marry.. cuase i mean.. get real a ring on your finger isnt going to make problems solve themselves.
tell him that there needs to be change in the way you act towards each other, and then maybe you 2 can discuss being married...
That being said, if you dont say yes... um, he either is going to start to argue or be kinda uneasy (who wouldnt be uneasy)
Make the problems, doubts, questions, about "us" and "we" not about him or you... if he cant understand you or doesnt try to sincerely (with a positive attitude), im sorry but he isnt really ready for a partnership... a life one at that..
You being a taurus and him a capricorn.... means something to you, and you clearly dont like some of his qualities, and um if they are typical of capricorns... dooo you really think they will change who they really are?
would you... nope... your probably to stubburn.
You know whats wrong...(you seem to at least) it either is going to change or isnt... and on that make your choices...
2007-01-05 16:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk. Sit down with him and tell him how you feel. Work out your problems. There is no point throwing your life away on something you dont want. But if you say yes then tell him that there needs to be change in the way you act towards each other.
2007-01-04 06:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by HeadfirstForHalos11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Taurus who has tried Capricorn relationships a few times. They start well, but they never end up well. Capricorns are very passive aggressive, and you rarely get the whole view of things from them. My advice is Move On...
2007-01-04 09:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear taurus you do like having the last word lol
Seriously do not base your marriage decision on horoscope signs. I am aries stuborn head strong and full of spit and fire.
My husband is a capicorn, stuborn arguementive and yes we argue but we have a love between us i can not describe to you I have never been happier. If I was to go horoscopes our sign are
not compitable and we would not be together. Go by your inner feelings on how you feel all good marriages take alot of love and work Good luck to you
2007-01-04 07:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by lisa k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can´t make him change. He will change only if he wants to. You should think of how your life is better, with or with out him. With all his good and bad things. Any way he does not sound that bad to me, maybe because i´m a Capricorn too.
2007-01-04 06:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by muñeca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG...this was me and my ex..i am taurus and he's the capricorn....trust me when i say this. don't marry him. i made that mistake and we divorced quick! capricorns r not talkative and sneaky. don't do it for your own sake.
2007-01-04 06:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by A. L 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who is breaking up with whom?
2007-01-04 07:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to astrology you two don't match. And your behavior has confirmed that.
2007-01-04 08:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋