I've tried a couple of times and it just feels uncomfortable. My poor husband is feeling deprived.
2007-01-04 06:30:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am right there with you. My poor hubby, I feel so bad. But when it comes around to it, it just seems like more of a hassle for me, and I'm totally not aroused. Weird for me to feel like this. He thinks its something to do with him. I wish he understood what I'm going through a little more. It's our first pregnancy.
2007-01-04 06:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal - you are so preoccupied with all the changes going on in your body, hormones, exhaustion, etc. I am also 15 weeks along and don't have much of a sex drive, but can tell you that when I do manage to have sex with my husband, orgasms are better than ever!! So, if you can muster up the drive, it may just pay off! Enjoy!
2007-01-04 06:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by mommy2be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. It almost as if your on birth control. Women start feeling the lack of having sex with their partners due to hormones.
If your husband feels deprived...just let him know that you are going through changes and that he needs to be accepting. If not, no offence, and really, this is only for humor, not offence, but he has a hand too. :-p
2007-01-04 06:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad you asked this question, I am at 24 weeks and feel the same way still! My husband and I talk about it a lot because I feel so bad and he totally understands. I think even imagining that pressure on my uterus totally turns me off, I have gotten super protective of the mid-section of my body and want no disturbances whatsoever. I hope it passes, best wishes to you and your husband.
2007-01-04 06:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by krista_focus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's very normal especially if you have'nt been feeling well like suffering from morning sickness, sore breasts and just being tired all the time don't worry some women notice their sex drive comes back with a vengeance in the second trimester.
2007-01-04 06:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tonyal P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been interested in sex really at all this whole pregnancy I'm 33 weeks and 2 days and I don't see me ever having sex again at this rate. I dunno the farther along I get the less I care if men evr have the slightest bit of happiness again. I was reading an artical the other day in American Baby I do believe and it was saying something about men getting depressed. I thought I was gonna rip the magazine up. I started screaming as if I care. We have it way worse. Let em suffer. Plus you shouldn't have sex if its uncomfortable. Maybe you can try oral of something. I had the same problem and haen't had sex since. (20 wks).....
2007-01-04 06:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes this is totally normal, alot of women feel this way. I am sure their are other ways to pleasure your poor deprived husband.
2007-01-04 06:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by jaystylz808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing with this pregnancy. Absolutley no interest in sex. However, with my first pregnancy, I couldn't get enough. I've heard that your sex drive either substantially increases or decreases during pregnancy. Every pregnancy is different. I'm hoping this will pass! Good Luck!
2007-01-04 07:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is always oral sex for him if you can manage, other then that it all depends on the women. i have a very active sex drive while pregnant but some women like yourself just don't care for it while pregnant. don't worry you will get it back sometimes even before the baby is born. no worries. and trust me your husband can manage a while without sex.
2007-01-04 06:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal to lose sex drive when pregnant wait til your third trimester you might be suprised to get it back more then ever. Also sometime thyroid problems occur with pregnancy and that can knockout the drive too.
2007-01-04 06:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by jon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋