do 9 months but actually she been waiting for him for 5 months already should she continue this relationship?
2007-01-04 06:30:03 · 15 answers · asked by Letty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's up to her. I'd assume that any person that wants to continue a relationship with a criminal has extremely low self esteem and not much hope for a good future.
2007-01-04 06:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do? Most of the time they didn't do what they were charged with! Which is bull. Tell your sister that she is making her life go down the same path his is and that if he is a felony offender that his chances of getting a decent job is unlikely. If she plans a future with this guy, What kind of future is there? Some people make mistakes, but most of the time they don't stop making mistakes. She needs to be careful and not end up in jail with him, that is when he gets back out. Is he on drugs is that what got him in there? If so she should stay away. You guys really don't know what the effects are when getting involved with inmates.
2007-01-04 06:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the circumstances if he went to jail for something minor then maybe she should give it a chance when he comes out. If he did something serious that flashes all the signs of a bad boy let her know maybe this is not the path she wants to be on and what if he continues to get in more trouble will she really want to put herself in the position of a waiting girlfriend letting life pass her by? I suggest you step up to the plate and have a serious heart to heart with your sister before things really get crazy.
2007-01-04 06:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you have 4 more months for her to obsess about this guy... When he gets out willbe thr true test - and she has probably built him up to be this wonderful - great guy (with bad luck), that when he actually gets out - he willnot be able to live up to her expectations.
Remember he has nothing to do in jail except tell her great things and fantasize about her.... he is going to make her think he is a dream guy.
Unfortunately... bad timing on your sister meeting him... We all love the guy the first month its about the 2nd or third we start seeing who they really are - and your sis didn't get to see this.
Don't worry - let her obsess.... Infact build him up even more - lol ... honestly he probably won't make the cut after a couple of months - and your sister will learn to not wait around for guys who goto jail anymore - and years later - ya'll can both laugh about the guy she dated who was in jail...
Don't try and talk her out of it - cause it may make her try to work at even harder when he comes out(probably just to prove you and everyone else wrong - you don't want that) - just support her ridiculous claim to love...
Good Luck!
2007-01-04 06:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by woozeylucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to head on, getting locked up and entering into hardship is a existence-style for him, if he have been fairly bored with the existence then why shop doing issues to maintain getting locked up, he will not substitute people like this purely say what they think of the different person needs to pay attention so as that they might have somebody to fall lower back on because of the fact every person else is bored with it, as quickly as out they start up referring lower back to their previous strategies, they might desire to alter yet they actually dont be attentive to how because of the fact they have been entering into hardship for goodbye that it turns right into a habit...
2016-12-15 15:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one.How much does you sister know about this guy.Everyone wants to give a second chance.I have a friend thats been doing this now for 3 years.She gives and gives and he takes and takes.So yeah i think she should move on.
2007-01-04 11:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by catfancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not bade well for a lasting relationship! Since she was with him only a month before he was incarcerated, I recommend she move on.
2007-01-04 06:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if she likes guys who take it in the rear.
Why would she want to date a guy who is on that road? She will end up with kids and by herself when he goes back to prison.
2007-01-04 06:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is going to jail so he will now have a boyfriend
tell her to find a law abiding citizen
2007-01-04 06:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO this guy is a loser and will end up back in jail.
2007-01-04 06:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋