he got a 2:00 a.m text I found. He says she works with him and likes him. although he is not interested.......... why would he hide her name and number and text her back???????? Could he be innocent?
2007-01-04 06:18:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he took pictures at the office on friday... the text I saw was from him at 2:00 am.(he said she texted him first about the pictures) I will bring the pictures tuesday, and her reply OK sweetheart ( he says she calls everyone sweetheart), thank you , good night. they work days and not in the same department.
2007-01-04 06:31:25 · update #1
NO!
you have the info now
text her back and tell her that you would appreciate it if she respected your household and that from now on YOU will be reading all text messages that she sends to him!
SHe will throw rocks at him tommorrow
(he probably never even told her he was married or in a relationship)
2007-01-04 06:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how I caught my BF cheating...text messages. He was getting them at odd hours, and saying they were from a guy he works with. I knew that was bull, but I let it go for a while until his next phone bill came in the mail. I looked at it, saw the phone number of the person sending the texts, and I did a reverse number lookup online to find out who the number belonged to. It was a woman. So, obviously he lied straight to my face, and he was doing something he shouldn't have been doing. Eventually the whole thing blew up and I found out there were a whole BUNCH of women, so many text messages each month that his phone bill was over $700. His "thing" was phone sex.
Yes, he is lying, and yes, you need to find out who this woman really is and what the situation really is.
2007-01-04 06:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Heather C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All investigations take time. Snap decisions are often wrong, because they are as much emotional as anything. I will grant you that this does sound strange and it would give me reason to wonder, if I were you, but then again, I can sit here and give you a couple of things that might make you think.
If you are a jealous type or known to be suspicios or go off, it would be reasonable to not want to give you details at times or clue you in, for fear you might suspect something when there isnt anything happening.
My advice is simply to watch and observe, listen and think logically. Many times, our emotions lead us to the wrong conclusions about things. Just be aware, pay attention and so forth. Patterns will emerge and give you clues.
Lastly, dont think that just because he is a man, he has to be guilty or cheating. I have seen and know of just as many if not more women who are horrid and untrustworthy.
2007-01-04 06:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to change his number. And you won't have that problem no more. Tell him I can't trust this until your number is change. And if he does do it, no way in the world she should get his text number or any thing of his. If he don't change it go buy him ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger. That book should put him on the right truck. If he applies it.This women text him at 2am is not cool. It real tear you apart. And if this other women knows about you she is not showing no respect for you or him,and she don't care if you know that she likes your man.Her motive is to get him. And she going to say or do anything to get his attention. Be careful. And if hes really with you, he needs to change that number or if he don't buy that book and have him tell her in front of you, not to call or text me no more. So what if he works with her, she not his boss. He owes her nothing.
2007-01-04 06:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something going on there.I would say they have a thing for each other I know women who call people sweetheart to but they never sign there text messages that way.I would keep my eyes and ears open I hope for the best but if he is cheating throw him out and find a man worthy of you. Good Luck
2007-01-04 06:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspect. The evidence is not iron clad though.
I had a girl I knew in school who would call me for help all the time whenever she got stressed. One time at 3:30 am. I'll admit I played along with it a lot more than I should have, but I never cheated on my wife or even thought about it.
You gotta figure this out though. No secrets.
2007-01-04 06:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got a text message at 2 am which he did hide her name and number from you. Sounds like he is hiding something. Just be up front with him and ask what's going on.
2007-01-04 06:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not innocent. Do u ever get any 2 am text messages? I don't think so and if it was work related it could'nt wait till the next day? Please! Trust me I know from personal experience! and rarely is any man who is cheating is gonna admit it! You betta get your hands on that cell bill and see just how much texting and phone calls have been going on!
2007-01-04 06:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating yet, but he's definitely lied to you about whatever he's got going on with this girl.....you shouldn't have to take that crap.....if someone was texting my man in the middle of the night like that.....and hiding numbers...that's just asking for trouble.....doubt, mis-trust, etc.
2007-01-04 06:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I work with lots of men, but none of them have my cell phone number. A text at 2am, sounds fishy to me. I do not think your husband is being honest with you.
2007-01-04 06:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋